Tips on Where to Meet Women

The answer is staring one in the face. Women can be found everywhere. The answer eludes the questioner because they ask the wrong question.

The question must be how to meet a woman the right way and not where you need to go to meet women.

Every woman in your life can turn into a potential mate. You just have to open your eyes. The first thing to understand is that a change in one's attitude can do wonders for you. Sure, people can tell you that there is a so called best place to meet women, but if you have not understood that you can turn every circumstance into an opportunity then no location can prove to be beneficial for you.

Instead of searching for places to meet women, you must be a woman magnet instead. How? It is simply by improving who you are, becoming decisive with every step, creating an image of success and by believing in it in every step of the way.

If you are confident then it is easier to understand who you really are. By nature of understanding who you are it would be easier to tap into your talents and skills and put them into good use. If you project a positive vibration and good vibes to everyone that you meet then there is no need to ask where to meet women. The women themselves would come to you!

Women would be the one to find you and find ways on how they can talk to you. By being self assured and without egoistic tendencies, you create opportunities and open a world to yourself.

Do this by improving your mindset about your family life, your neighborhood, with your female friends, co-workers and the rest of the community. Exude positivity and confidence in your life and in your beliefs and start your own path to greatness. Create a vision of who you want to be and soon you will see that you do not need to decide on which place you must go just so you could get together with someone.

A person who is accomplished and enjoys life need not be burdened with questions on datingtips.somethingabout.com/articles/dating-tips-for-men/181-where-to-meet-women">where to meet women at all. It just happens, and this is easier by being seen, being in public and enjoying socializing and creating new concepts and ideas with others. Get involved and get your answers immediately!

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Does Your Lack Of Self-Esteem Damage Your Dating?

Does your lack of self esteem damage your chances of dating? Perhaps it's the other way around. Are your chances of dating often damaged by your lack of self-esteem? Do you sometimes meet a member of the opposite sex, or at least set eyes on one, and you think how marvellous it would be to know them, to take them out to dinner, (or be taken out).

Then you think; "Yes, but what's the point? Someone with looks like that's bound to turn me down without a second's thought." Now, why would that be, do you think? Where is it written in stone that the object of your desire is so beautiful/handsome that you just don't stand a chance with them? If you ask them, all you can expect is a right hook?

Of course, if it's a gorgeous lady, and she's accompanied by a very large handsome man, then we must admit that your chances are somewhat lessened! Obviously, make certain that they aren't accompanied by anyone, but if they seem footloose and fancy free, they're limited to one of two words; "Yes," or "No."

The main problem is your nervousness. When you think about going over to someone and asking them for a dance or whether they'd like to go out to dinner the following night, and being nervous to do so, it doesn't make a lot of sense. When all's said and done, you're the one who's paying them the compliment, not vice-versa. But to take it a step further, and we touched on this before, just because you ask them to dance or to go out to lunch or dinner the following day, why is it that 90% of us are terrified at the thought?

What it comes down to, really, is the fear of rejection. We're scared stiff of the other person looking us up and down with a hyper-critical eye then, after about fifteen seconds, saying 'no' in a very superior voice. Later on, when we've come out of our mortification, we find ourselves in a position to accept the insulting rejection, (unless we're of an extremely delicate frame of mind)

Indeed, by the end of the evening, we may very well be in a position to approach the person and ask them why they had to be so rude. But to be afraid of actually asking a person to dance with you or go out for a meal, is really a ridiculous emotion. Yes, you can understand it if the object of your passion is standing there with a large spear and making threatening signs, but that isn't very likely to happen.

It boils down to a complete lack of self-esteem. It's unlikely that the individual with plenty of self confidence will have any problem at all in making the necessary approach. But your self-esteem must be built upon slowly and worked on every day. Then gradually you'll find yourself improving as the weeks and months go by until you reach a stage when asking someone for a date is as easy and natural as brushing your teeth in the morning

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How to Pick Up Older Women - Some Basic Info

There is a trend now in Hollywood and it is being seen everywhere, from Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore, to Drew Barrymore and Lucy Liu dating younger men.

The shift has been gradual and for a good reason. Older women tend to be more confident, knowledgeable and experts in the art of love. This is the common idea about them, and this is what propels many males to venture into the unknown.

This is why many males are starting to wonder how they can pick up older women, how do they meet suhc females and what do they need to do to get noticed.

The first thing to understand with how this can work for you is to remove the term pick up and change it to dating-and finding the one.

There is no point in the word picking up. It becomes senseless most of the time because women who are older know what they want. You need to get inside their psyche first. Women who are older understand how the game works and they are with you for a reason. It is time to drop the childish attitude and be a man or get left behind.

Stop thinking that you need to manipulate in order to get what you want. The first crucial step is to become genuine. Most of the time males think that older women are better because chances are that they are already financially stable and capable. Most of the time this is true, but you have to understand that older women also have a higher chance of having children to look after.

If your main goal is just to be with older women for the fun of it, then this can work differently for you. The truth is that there is no difference between a younger woman and an older woman. They are still women and they will exhibit the same ideas and emotions. If you have a terrible experience with younger women or women your age, it is not because of those women, but of how you have handled the relationship.

You attract and you attain what has been developed in your own thoughts. You alone have created your circumstances. If you think that your life can change just by meeting an older woman then you have a lot more to realize and actualize.

Everything can be great, once you want them to be. Picking up older women should not be that difficult.

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Jersey Shore: Going Back When You Know You Shouldn't, The Power Men Hold

So I finally caught up on my Jersey Shore over the weekend and, shocking, Ronnie and Sam are at it again. While watching them in Miami last season I would be constantly appalled by the fact that no matter how poorly Ron treated Sam, she always took him back. Now, this season, Sam finally tries to walk away so Ron shows her a little respect and love and she just goes back to him. Yet, she texts a guy so now she is the antagonist in their whirlwind of a relationship...it really never ends with them. I'm not sure what to make of the alleged text to that guy friend of hers and if she was looking too hook up with him or he was just starting trouble; but, regardless, things got heated. The episode left off with Ron pinning Sam into a corner yelling in her face while she screamed for him to move out of the way and he refused.

The house mates, as well as anyone watching the show, can tell that the relationship is volatile and unhealthy. Having gone to school for psychology and taken courses specifically on domestic violence, I am aware that statistics show the majority of abuse in relationships is mutual with both parties physically abusing the other. The issue, however, is that Sam is a small girl and Ron is a jacked, aggressive male so he will always be stronger and has the capacity to damage her more than she could him. No matter who is physically abusive in a relationship, it is obviously wrong and dangerous and it is clear that Ron and Sam both are emotional people who take their frustrations out physically--so they are a bad combination. This makes for great entertainment but a tragic life.

Whenever I see unhappy couples like that I don't understand how it is that they don't just break up and be happy apart as opposed to miserable together. They claim to love each other but they seem to only express it in heated arguments and physical altercations. It seems so illogical for them to be together when they are clearly a toxic couple. I can't speak for them as individuals (though there does not appear to be much depth in either of them) yet I can attest that what I've seen on the show makes me confident that they are not capable of ever being a healthy, happy couple and things will only get worse because together they are always just a volcano waiting to erupt.

While it is unfathomable to me how the two of them can stay together, I can't help but acknowledge the parallels in my own life and the lives of my friends. I feel as though we all have either dated someone who seemed to hurt us far more then they enhanced our lives or at least had a friend or family member in a bad situation, dating a douche but unable to walk away. I realize that I must have appeared nearly as crazy and dumb to my friends as Sam did hers when I was involved with guys who would bring me to tears instead of on dates and repeatedly broke my heart. Granted, I never had physical altercations with any of them or screamed like she did but I've had my share of public cries followed by sex after no apology so I suppose it's just as bad. I've had guys say some of the worst things to me, knowing my self-esteem issues and I'd forgive them because I loved them and would make excuses and justifications so that I could continue to be with them just so I wouldn't be alone.

I've been just as degraded as Sam has and gone back too... and I never even got the "I love you." Of course, I've grown from those experiences and will never let a guy walk all over me again, but it is so hard when you are in it because once you've fallen for someone you can feel powerless. We all at some point or another go back when we know we shouldn't because we believe he will change, he is sorry, he really is a good guy, or we convince ourselves that it was our fault. So, we essentially bury our self esteem in the ground or lock it away like Mol did her top in Inception, to keep living a lie of a life that really only causes us pain. It makes no sense really and yet it is a common fallacy.

Love is annoyingly powerful, as is the fear of being alone. These feelings can drive one to do crazy things or be with awful people. When a relationship isn't working and you can't bring yourself to end it, the best thing to do is get space--and not a few days like Sam did, but a few months. Time apart will help you to see if what you are feeling is transient or real, lust or love. One of my best friends dated a guy whom she really liked then, one day, he fell off the face of the Earth. A few months later he resurfaced and was all about her while she was skeptical and rightfully had her guard up. Over three months later and they are one of the happiest couples I know. For them, getting space and a break allowed them to see that what they felt was real and was not lust or heat of the moment passion. They were not getting caught up in attraction and loving the rest because it came with the body, they truly did feel for one another. He took the time away to convince himself that what he was feeling was not true and that he was not in love but all that space did was validate his emotions and prove to him that he loved her and could not stay away. Obviously everyone is different and in many instances I'm sure space would show that he/she is utterly wrong and you will feel relief that you dodged a douche.

I personally have been caught up in the lust of things and lost sight of what was real but given time realized how wrong the guy was for me and thank fate for not having me end up with someone so wrong for me. It's a great feeling when a few years after a breakup you catch up with your ex and learn that he's still a degenerate loser and/or married a stripper while you have a great job, bought a house, and are doing well for yourself. It's also frightening to think how you and your life would be different had you not walked or been pushed away. While I hate to believe in magical thinking, I can't help but hold on to the ideal that things happen for a reason and that some of our worst, most trying times shape us and our lives for the better and bring about a richer life in the future.

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Tips For Giving Flowers to Your Girlfriend

Are you looking for tips for giving flowers to your girlfriend? If so, as a retired florist, I think I can help. Guys used to come into our flower shop often asking what types of flowers are appropriate for giving to their girlfriend. But first of all, I congratulate you for thinking of sending flowers to a lucky girl in the first place.

The first consideration in selecting which flowers to buy for your girlfriend is the stage you are at in your relationship. Is this your first date or have you been going out for a few months or a few years? Are you buying flowers for a special occasion or just to say I love you or I'm thinking of you? Let me attempt to answer all these questions...

If you want to bring flowers or get flowers delivered to your girl before your first date, the best idea is to send a small mixed bouquet of seasonal flowers, nothing extravagant, just a pretty little bouquet. If you have been going out for a while, a medium or large mixed bouquet would be well appreciated. This bouquet could be wrapped in cello or in a vase depending on where you are bringing the flowers.

If you are sending the bouquet to her house or apartment you could bring or get a vase bouquet or a wrapped bouquet. If however you are bringing flowers on a date at a restaurant, you may want to bring an easy to carry bouquet in a vase or an arrangement in a keepsake cup or other type of container that she can keep to be reminded of you every time she sees it even after the flowers are dead. If your date will have you going to many places and you don't want her to have the hassle of dragging the flowers all across town, you can bring her a single rose or a corsage.

For the rose, whatever you do, don't bring her a red rose on a first date! This is way too heavy for a first encounter! Roses are the most symbolic of flowers. Every rose has a different meaning and you can definitely look into that to send the proper message. If you have been going out for a while and you do want to tell her you love her with flowers, by all means give her red roses. At the beginning of a relationship if you go with yellow roses for friendship or pink roses for joyfulness and appreciation, you will be safe. Make sure to get a water pick so the rose stays healthy all night. A corsage, specifically a wristlet corsage would be perfect if you are taking her at a dance or club. Again, don't make it too big as to scare her off if this is your first date.

Whether you want to send flowers to your girlfriend to celebrate a special occasion such as a birthday or anniversary you have a choice of sending a seasonal mixed bouquet in a vase or a bouquet of roses. However, the most important part of the flower gift giving process is the sentiment card you will attach to the bouquet. Try to write more than Happy Birthday with love, John or something of the kind. Something more like: You mean so much to me, thanks for being such a wonderful girlfriend or Looking forward to getting to know you better, I love spending time with you will be a much better hit.

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Being the Funny Guy - How to Make Women Laugh

When it comes to being attractive to women it doesn't hurt if a guy is extremely good-looking, it's not bad if he's intelligent, nobody can turn them away for having a good job, but if you really want to keep a woman's heart long-term you need to make her laugh. Year after year magazines like Cosmopolitan rates in man's ability to make a woman laugh as the most important trait women look for in a man. This article is designed to help you be the funny guy and give you some tips on how to make a woman laugh.

Don't take yourself too seriously. Most men don't realize there's a fine line that needs to be walked between being confident, assertive and a man's man and a guy that takes himself too seriously and is to stuck up to poke fun at himself. By taking yourself too seriously, you're not putting the woman at ease if you can't make jokes about yourself and how comfortable is she going to be around you? She needs to feel like if you do something funny or stupid she can poke a little bit of fun that you and vice versa, if she does something silly deep down she really wants you to tease her about it as I keep your relationship fresh.

Be funny from the start! I still remember a guy that was hitting on me in a bar - I kept catching him looking over at me and I was interested so I smiled, he smiled back, as he was walking across the bar to see some friends gave me a little wink. About five more minutes went by and I hadn't seen or heard from him, suddenly he walked right up to me and said "I think we should see other people" at first I thought he was crazy or thought I was somebody else but he kept playing along with this little joke saying how much he "enjoyed the times we had together", I started to play along to and we spent the rest of the night joking about how we should get back together. A guy that has a funny intro or little joke to play always stands a fantastic chance of getting a pretty girl's attention.

One thing to remember though when it comes to being a funny guy. Is there is a time and place for everything you don't want to try and be funny all the time so that she doesn't take you seriously or thinks that you are her personal clown. Just be careful and try to mix in the right amount of humor and jokes. Also, by not trying to be too funny all the time here able to have a greater impact on her when you are being funny.

Avoid any jokes that insult her. It's one thing to poke fun at the milk that shot out of her nose as she was laughing while eating her breakfast cereal it's another thing to make fun of her weight, ethnicity or something else that borders on insulting her. If there is any doubt in your mind that the joke you're about to say is going to insult her just hold back and avoid it altogether.

Steal your material! If you are having a difficult time figuring out ways to be funny and spontaneous a great thing to do is hop on your Netflix account and put some old standup comedy DVDs in your queue. I can't tell you how easy it is to steal comedians humor and use it for yourself to get women. Remember, you're not trying out for Last Comic Standing and there's no such thing as plagiarism when it comes to flirting with women. The bottom line is we really want a laugh so we could care less if you're doing a shtick that he stole from an old Richard Pryor special or if it's something that you thought of yourself. The bottom line is we want to laugh!

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Go Ugly Early or Shoot for the Stars!

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I got asked this dating tip for guys question the other day, this time posed as a serious question. All these years and finally, someone wanted an answer... huh?

Here are my thoughts.

Experience and What you Perceive

If you have limited dating women experience then go for an "average girl." Not because she is average but because you're inexperienced. If you go for a "ten" than you will be nervous, your game will fall apart and you will fail.

If you are experienced dating women than why go for average. You want to be with a "ten" so go for a ten. I find no joy in getting a girl I don't find attractive. Furthermore my game is off when I go for average. I'm just not into it and this becomes blatantly evident to the "average girl."

Define What is Average and What is a Ten?

Great question. This is perception. When an amateur starts off he might perceive a ten to be what someone else perceives to be a five. As his skills and confidence improves what was once a ten is now a six. For me, a ten used to be a hot body and a beautiful face. Intelligence didn't matter. I would wake up with a girl dumber than a brick and that was ok. Now my ten is an eight or nine but needs to have a brain larger than a squirrel. Try to find a ten with a hot body, brain and a beautiful face and I'll show you a flying pig.

You see it's all what a person perceives to be hot, ugly or average. Remember you need something to compare. A control if you will. If a guy has never had a serious relationship than how does he know what he wants or what he qualifies as hot or average?

Other guys will tell me they have high standards. Do they really? Or is this an excuse not to try to get the girls for fear of rejection?

This relates to women also. How do girls know if they are into older or younger guys if they have no experience with either one. Or if they did once, it sucked, and they used this as their only control.

The "Ten"

The ten is in your mind, and always will be. The ten is always illusive and should be. What I thought to be a ten, years ago, is not anymore. She was the one that I couldn't dream of possibly approaching, she was drop dead gorgeous. This girl is my average everyday hook up on par with me today. Not because I'm a better looking guy, I'm not, or have more money, I do, but because my perceptions on life and all my experiences have changed me.

Then realty sets in. You walk into your bedroom she's in full drool, bad breath, and let's out a fart. Her face screams for make up. Is that cellulose I see? You feel cheated as this was your ten you fantasied about for two years before you finally landed the bitch.

Whoops, I digress.

To go ugly early or shoot for the stars is all based on your realty, experiences, values and how you perceive women. Now you can make the decision.

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Meet A New Friend - How To Use The Internet To Meet The Woman Of Your Dreams

o you want to meet a new friend? If you are single and you are looking to meet a girlfriend there is no doubt that the internet is a great place to do that. For over 14 years I have used the internet as a place to meet and date very gorgeous women from all over the USA and the world. A long time ago I realized that I was much more effective at talking to girls online than I was in a bar or a club. Now days it is quite normal to meet a woman online.

But I want to tell you about an idea in online dating that you may have not put much thought into. Have you ever thought of dating a girl from another country? Now I am not talking about a long distance relationship and I am really not talking about a mail order bride. Instead what I am talking about is being able to meet a girl that has very similar interests to you and that will make a great partner for you for years to come. She doesn't have to live down the street.

Our world is really merging into one culture in many ways. Very easily now days you can Skype with a person and have a real live video chat with them no matter where they are in the world. Quite often I Skype with a friend of mine in South Africa and with my aunt in China. The world is becoming a much smaller place. Also it isn't hard anymore to get on a plane and go visit someone.

I have found that some of the most wonderful women in the world are from the Philippines. They are petite, thin, and love to make their man happy. The Filipino people are very big on family values and you can bet that most any girl you meet from over there will put you and your family over anything else in the world. They lack the materialism and greed that is so often a characteristic of American woman.

There are lots of websites on the net that promise you a relationship with a Filipina. Don't trust any site that makes such a promise. Instead you need to look at sites that offer traditional online dating. They work extremely well. Another good option surprisingly is Craigslist. About 80% of the women on there that are putting up ads from the Philippines are really looking for relationships. Unlike the posters in the USA of which 80-90% are spammers.

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Single Parent Dating - Making It Easier

Are you a single parent who has decided to give dating another try? Do you know where to start and what to do? Want some good single parent dating advice? Now that you are divorced, annulled or separated, hooking up with other guys may be scary. There are so many "what if", "should I" and different kinds of doubts running through your mind. You may be too afraid to step out of your comfort zone because you don't want to get hurt again. Well you should smile. You know why? Because you can make dating happen and it won't even hurt you. Here are some ideas on how to find someone who can accept you and your current situation you are in.

1. Make time for it.

You should be certain that you have enough time for it. You shouldn't try to go on a date between the soccer game of your child and piano recital of your kids. The guy may think that you don't have time for him. Besides, if you try to squeeze him in then there's a lesser chance for you to get intimate with one another. He understands that you have kids to raise, deadlines to meet in work and all that. You do have to remember though that you need to give room for him. Make it a point to spend time with him without even having to rush all things.

2. Have someone to baby sit your kids.

You should always keep a list of babysitters. You will need them on so-called "surprise dates". You must have teenagers ready to be called at any given time. They are going to be like on-call doctors. They are ready 24/7. You won't have to worry as to who can take good care of your kids while you are away. Make sure that you have a babysitter that you can rely on. You should have one that can manage your kids' tantrums and mischievous behavior. It will help your mind be at peace while you are enjoying the night away.

3. Don't be a free rider.

There's a reason why most men don't dig single moms. The main reason in their head is that single moms are just looking for men who can take care of their financial problems. Hence, the term free rider. Since you said that you are ready to mingle, you should come prepared. You must not be broke. When both of you are out for a dinner, split the bill in half. It is much better if you willingly pay even though he doesn't want you to shell out cash. At least, you tried. He won't have a connotation that you are just after the money. Don't let him feel the burden that he will have to work twice as hard because you have children. Don't let him get that impression. If you are on a tight budget, he doesn't have to take you in a fancy restaurant. Work around your budget. Both of you can just hang out in the coffee shop and talk.

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Tests to Find Out What a Man Really Wants From You! Now You Will Be Sure About His Intentions

It goes without saying that relationships can be complex. As it is most men by nature don't talk and express themselves much. For most women one of the toughest relationship queries is the status and what your man is really looking from you. Cast aside your worries and do these simple things to find out.

Be patient
Most women are impulsive by nature and it so happens that if a woman really like a guy too much there is always a fear of doing too much too soon to please her man. This will tend to work adversely for you because a man inherently wants to win over his woman. So, if you go in all guns firing, this need will diminish. So bide your time, if he really sees a future with you, in his way he will let you know.

Just casual sex or more
This is a dilemma faced by millions of women the world over, the one of sex and commitment. If you are serious, don't make the mistake of sleeping with him too soon. If he is into you even with the sex factor out of the way, it means he wants to be in a meaningful relationship with you.

Closeness out of bedroom
Sex is a huge thing in a relationship. With physical intimacy in place, pay close attention to his behaviour towards you. If he is always loving and caring towards you, it's a sign that he wants a deeper relationship with you.

The providence factor
If he is looking at your relationship as a long time thing, gauge his ability of taking care of you. If he begins to strive more and becomes more serious at his work after hitting off with you it is a sign that he is really into you.

His willingness to talk will show you lots.
There is nothing easier than honest heart to heart meaningful conversations where he is willing to talk and is receptive to you. If he has this ability then you wouldn't have a difficult time figuring out what he really wants and whether or not you are just another person in his life.

You are in his "others" talks
If you figure quite regularly in his conversations with his friends, colleagues and family and more often than not he has nice things to say about you, you can be sure that he is looking at your relationship seriously and he is seeking more than just friendship and companionship from you.

He is making plans for the future
Everyone makes plans for the future and so is he, be it regarding a better income, a good house a comfortable lifestyle and so on. If he confides in you about his future plans and you get hints that you are part of them, most times it means that he envisions a future with you and wants to be in a long committed relationship with you.

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