Do you think that women don't really know what they want? No, not really -- women know what they want. However, they are just very hard to understand and are sometimes deceiving with their words and actions. As it is said -- women are from Venus and men are from Mars. Thus, there is this huge communication gap in between when it comes to certain aspects. Apart from verbal communication, body language also differ.
More often than not, men have always wanted to decipher what goes on in a woman's head. Let's take a look at the simple things that women usually say, and look at what they actually mean.
"I just want to have fun"
When a woman says that she just wants to have fun, she means it. However, it might not be the fun that you are thinking of. Most women want those typical "fun" relationships that are full of thoughtful and sweet surprises and other cheesy stuff.
"I'm very tired"
This line can have more than one meaning. It can mean that she really is tired and wouldn't want to do anything. Or if you're both in bed, it could also mean that she's too tired to do any work so it's up to you to do everything.
"Let's catch a movie"
Maybe she really wants to watch something. But often, movie dates are those that can let her have time with you. These type of dates that also take the pressure off both of you as you both don't have to always fill in "dead air".
"I'm always on Twitter and Facebook"
When a woman lets you know that she's active on social networking sites, this just simply means that she wants you to add her to your network. Yes, this is a positive sign that she's interested to know you more!
"Gimme 5 minutes"
To a woman, 5 minutes is as long as your 5 minutes when you're tuning into that football game before you finally decide to stand up and take out the trash. But most likely, 5 minutes turns out to be half an hour for women.
"It's not you, it's just me"
This is the OUCH. This line is a woman's way to dump you in a "nicer way". The truth is, she might not just be that into you and she wants something else with her life.
"No worries, I don't mind if you and your ex hang out"
No, she minds -- believe me! In circumstances like this, she technically trusts you but not you ex. If your woman says this, don't bother even seeing your ex. Trust me, it's for your own good.
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