Why Do Boyfriends Flirt With Other Girls?

It makes you jealous and mad when he flirts with other girls. Your rationale is: he's got a girlfriend so he should stop flirting with other girls. Unfortunately, this is usually an unspoken rule. As long as you and your boyfriend don't have an agreement and understanding about flirting, you can't expect him to read your mind.

To help you handle the situation better, here's an explanation about why boyfriend flirt with other girls so you can figure out what to do next...

Flirting is a lot of fun and is very flattering. Hence, when your boyfriend flirts with other girls, and they respond positively, it makes him feel attractive and good about himself. That is the basic reason why boyfriends flirt with other girls.

To a large extent, it is healthy that your boyfriend continues to feel attracted to other women even though he's in a committed relationship. Think about it: He's a man and being attracted to sexy women is part of his masculine sexuality. You can't expect him to stop being a man just because he's in a committed relationship with you. It's not like he has a switch that he can turn off and on when he likes. The fact that he's attracted to other women shows he is normal.

If you kick up a fuss, and ask him to stop flirting, you are actually asking him to suppress his masculine sexuality. If you do this, be warned. When a man forces himself to shut down his masculine sexuality, the outcome can backfire. While he may stop feeling sexually attracted to other women, you may discover him starting to lose sexual interest in you too! This usually creates even bigger problems relationships than allowing him to flirt playfully with other women.

Does this mean the only choice you have is to tolerate his flirtatious behaviour?

Not necessarily so. If you're in a serious relationship with your boyfriend, it's only rational that you talk with him about it. But do your best to calm yourself first. Men find it hard to listen to women when they are being very emotional. Most of all, don't raise your voice at him because raising your voice indicates you are picking a fight with him. If you pick a fight with him, he will get defensive and can't hear what you have to say.

However, there is an even better way to stop your boyfriend from flirting with other girls when you are around. And that is to become so attractive and precious to him that he won't want to risk losing you. To do this, you need to understand men better so you can melt his heart.

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