The very fact that he had rejected you in the beginning makes you want to take revenge. This reaction is natural and nobody can blame you. However you are doing this because you are feeling hurt and would have liked him to accept you instead of rejecting you. If you are still bent on making him regret his action, these tactics could help you.
Start looking much better than you ever did before
It is important that you begin to look really attractive. Wear stylish clothes and adapt a look that will make the guys ogle you and want you. Once you have accomplished this, all you have to do is plant yourself in his path and see how shocked and amazed he is when he spots you!
Ignore him completely
If you do manage to catch his attention by looking stunning and beautiful, don't respond to his stares and curiosity. He will want to know what is making you tick! He might try to get your attention but you should keep him at arm's length. Remember he rejected you and he will have to pay for it - at least for some time!
Make his friends admire you
The more his friends talk about you and admire you the more he is going to become aware of your popularity and attractiveness. He will begin to regret rejecting you and wonder if he did the right thing after all. Don't be surprised if he starts to pursue you and want you for himself.
Show him how good you can be
The trick to making him feel like the biggest mistake he has made is rejecting you, is to let him see how good you can be. Flaunt all your talents and make sure he comes to know of your accomplishments. Let him admire your self confidence and realize that his rejection of you didn't faze you a bit!
Forgive him and be nice to him
The faster you forgive him the better it is for you. Not only will you be freed of this huge burden of anger and resentment towards him, but you will be able to behave in a cordial and friendly manner towards him. This sort of attitude and behavior will make him aware of your qualities and traits that are admirable.
Be friends but keep him at arm's length
There is no reason why you can't still be friends with him. The fact that you are so self confident and not put out by his rejection will automatically make him respect and admire you. Not only will he begin to pay close attention to you, but he will slow start to like you more. Before too long - he will want you!
Adopt a "don't care attitude"
If you show him that you are hurt and miserable about the rejection, then he would begin to at the most - pity you! This will make him all the more justified in rejecting you. If on the other hand you will pretend that you don't care about him rejecting you and are determined to have a wonderful life anyway - he will sit up and take notice of you!
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