Employing some psychological tricks to get a man is not a bad idea! It should not really be difficult for you to hook him if you use some of these tricks mentioned below. He will find himself falling hard for you in no time at all!
Don't make him get too comfortable about you
It is important to keep your distance from him in the beginning. Making him too comfortable with you will also make him take you for granted! He could lose interest in you if you come across as just one of the gang! The trick would be to make him see you as desirable and not to approachable so that he longs to "win" you over!
Make it hard for him to read you
Don't make it too easy for him to understand you. Being mysterious and enigmatic has always been a way to make the opposite sex curious and attracted to a woman. Let him wonder about you - your true feelings, what you are up to and whether he has a chance with you!
Flirt but don't get too close
It would be a great idea if you could flirt with him a little. Don't over do it or else he would think you were cheap. Instead flirt just enough to make him wonder if that special sexy smile was for him or someone else? Give him some of your special "looks" that makes him feel special and sexy! He will find himself on the look out for some more!
Exasperate him with your "blow hot blow cold" attitude
The trick here is to make him feel on top of the world with your flirting and attention one minute and down in the dumps the other minute because of your cool attitude! This sort of "see-saw" behavior on your part will goad him all the more to hook you and impress you. He will be determined to make you love him.
Let him get a glimpse of the real you
It would help if he saw the real you once in a while! Don't be too secretive and withdrawn. The more he notices your genuine and admirable traits and qualities, the more chances you have of him falling deeply in love with you. Do not be ashamed of who you are and be confident enough to reveal your true self.
Bring him back to earth just when he's flying high
This is another way of confusing him as to whether you really care or not! Just when he begins to think that he has got you in the palm of his hand, all you have to do is snub him and see how surprised and perplexed he will become! This is a sure way to make him determined to get your loving attention again.
Don't agree to a courtship.....yet!
Be a good friend to him. If he tries to push for a courtship - stall him till you are sure of his real intentions and feelings. Once you think it is time you can take the relationship to the place you want it to be! For the beginning opt for friendship so that he knows that you are not the desperate kind.
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