Secrets of Attracting Women - You Control the Outcome

Most guys when they are really attracted to a woman come from a place of absolutely no power and control in how they deal with her. Meaning, they walk up to her, try their best to impress her and hope that she somehow accepts them and wants to spend more time with them. It's kind of like, they are constantly trying to throw Hail Mary passes into the end zone, and they don't even have an arm that can throw 20 yards. If you really want to know how to attract women, then you have to come to a point where you realize that YOU are in control of the outcome.

Now, I know that you can't ever guarantee 100 percent that you will get the woman, that is just wishful thinking. Kind of like dreaming about hitting the game winning shot, it's just not going to happen for you. However, there are many things that you can do that will help you to "stack" the odds in your favor and make it a lot more likely that you do end up with the outcome that you desire.

Here are some secrets of attracting women that you should know to help you to control the situation:

1. Instead of approaching her with the mindset that you hope she likes you, assume that she already does.

This is one of those funny little mind tricks that just works. It gets you in the groove of feeling like you have what it takes and it causes you to interact with a woman in a completely different way. See, most guys when they approach a woman, it's pretty obvious that they are nervous and hoping hard that they can find some way to "make" her like them. That is what women see all of the time. What they rarely see is a guy who is confident enough in himself to assume that she already is attracted to them.

2. Learn to lead the conversation instead of trying to follow along.

The whole point of trying to lead the conversation is, you have an idea already in your mind where you want things to go. If you sit back and hope that she leads the conversation where you want it to go, you are going to wait a long time. When you are the one that leads the conversation, you automatically take the reigns and have a bigger impact on what happens next.

3. Have a plan already in mind of what you want to happen.

In simple terms, you want to know whether or not you want to get her phone number, a date with her, or you are trying to hook up for the evening. If you are going to get somewhere, you have to already know that before hand. What most men do, is they have an attitude of taking what they can get, and then they get disappointment because things don't click the way that they want it to.

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