Fruitful and good relationships always start with a meaningful encounter between a guy and a girl. While this is a given, a lot of guys are left with this very hard question: how do I approach the girl that I am attracted to? How can I get her to be interested in me just with the way I enter into a conversation with her? These following tips on how to smooth talk a girl would be very helpful in starting and coming up with meaningful conversations that lead to attraction.
First of all, one should take note of one's posture and gestures while talking to a girl. One should always show an aura of confidence, that one is secure with the way one moves, sits, talks, and makes hand movements. Make sure that the body does not shy away from the girl, hands are not shaky, and one's voice is full and does not appear squeaky. In this way, a man can show interest towards a girl while showing that he is interested in her.
Second, one should learn to talk and listen well. A guy should always maintain eye contact with a girl, and should attentively listen to whatever she says. On the other hand, one should talk about interesting stuff, something that will make her want for more of his presence. Remember that the conversation is not just about you, so the majority of the conversation should be more about what she wants to hear about herself. Also, use hand gestures and if possible, imitate her gestures (not in a joking manner) when appropriate with what you are talking about.
Related to that is the third important thing to consider, which is the way you direct attention to her. Girls want to be complimented, most especially about their attractive body parts. Therefore, make it a point to compliment them (at the right timing) about their eyes, smile, or anything that is evident in them. Also, it would be important to act like a gentleman and do the things that would show respect to her, including giving her the seat, opening the door for her, and being sensitive to her pressing needs. In this way, you will come out as a person who respects girls and values their presence.
The most important tip on how to smooth talk a girl is to act natural. One need not project a "player" image that can hook up with many girls. Instead, one just has to act natural while taking note of these things. In this way, girls will be more comfortable around guys and will be more interested of them.
What if you could Approach Any Woman, Anywhere And Know Exactly What To Say To Get Her To Give You Her Number And Go On A date With You?
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