Friday, September 23, 2011

Courting and Dating - How to Make a Good Impression

Do you have a date tonight? Are you prepared for it? Are you confident that your courting and dating skills are up to speed? You may consider that the first date is the most difficult, but this is incorrect. Achieving a second or third date is much more difficult. The first date must make a good impression so that the woman will say yes to going on another date. If you make a lot of errors on the first date, you'll be unlikely to get the second date. You may be confident but there are still many dating errors that guys make without even realizing it.

Here are some courting and dating tips that can help you out.

1. Do not ask a woman out on a date without first putting some thought into it.

If you want to make a great impression on a woman, you will have to put some serious thought to it. Try to avoid the standard dinner-and-movie option. Think about doing something different. Try to stand out from the crowd. You could go for a hike to check out a great view, or you could have picnic on the beach at sunset. You could hire a boat and have dinner on that. It doesn't have to be fancy. A picnic of sandwiches and sparkling wine can make a great impression. Be unique - don't do the same old things guys always do. Make it special for her.

2. Do not make the first date like a job interview.

Don't submit your date to an interrogation. It's OK to ask her some questions to show that you are interested. Just don't ply her with a stream of questions. Try to balance the conversation by telling her some things about yourself - like what your occupation is, what hobbies you have and what makes you laugh. Throw in a couple of funny jokes to make her giggle. This will make her more receptive and she'll open up about herself. She'll be willing to share information about herself with you. If you bombard her with too many questions, your date will feel nervous and overwhelmed.

3. Connect physically.

Men often don't realize that women like a physical connection. This does not mean you should kiss her on the lips straight away. You might just take her hand or give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug. If you are courting a woman and you don't display any physical affection, she might think that you and she are just friends. There will then be no opportunity for you to get this woman to be your girlfriend.



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