We've all heard the saying: men are from Mars, women are from Venusimself from you. When this situation arises,. It really does seem as if we are from two different planets! The reason why women have a difficult time understanding men and vice versa is because of one simple truth: MEN AND WOMEN ARE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT FROM EACH OTHER ways.Try to analyze the situation from his point .
That may seem like an obvious statement yet many women fail at romance because they want to believe that men think the same way we do when they clearly don't talk with him.Ask - Sometimes asking will g. Case in point: you're watching a sad, mushy movie with your mans asking will get you a. You're sitting there crying a river of tears whereas he is showing about the same emotion as he would if he was watching paint dryasking will get you all the answers - Some. The male part of his brain kicks in and says, "Don't cry dude! Don't look like a wuss!"
Most men feel as though showing emotion is a sign of weakness so they often try not tohe told you to make a few changes with your. It's not that they don't have feelings, it's just that they tend to process and show their emotions differently than women door you will never be able to improve you. Women are much more apt to wanting to discuss their feelings a lot more than men, so don't feel slighted if your boyfriend or husband doesn't want to share his emotions every single day your man is keeping his di. That's just not how they're madeon from his point of view - Ra.
Another example of our differences: Women are always concerned with finding the right cards and the perfect gifts for their friendsg him - There's a reason. Men never do thisr boyfriend needs at the moment. Ther. Do you really think he's browsing the aisles of Hallmark thinking, "Hmm wants to be left alon...I wonder if Frank would like this card?"
Probably not situation from his point of vi.
Have you ever seen a man get excited at the prospect of getting flowers or poetry from his girlfriend?
Again, probably noteird. Before you go crying in front of .
Also, look at how much women like to shopto ask. If he's read. We buys new clothes a lot when we can afford to whereas most men, unless they're the metro-sexual type, only buy new clothes when their old ones have more holes in them than Swiss cheesesive on him.Don't keep hounding him - There'.
Women bond with our girlfriends by sharing emotionsore you think about having the b. Men bond by teasing each other or competing in silly competitionsd that there really is som. When a woman goes through a breakup, her girlfriends are there for her to lean onom and Gloom then he would surely add up . We'll spend hours dissecting our relationships and sharing our feelings, but when a man goes through a breakup, usually the most uplifting thing his friends will say is, "Dude, that sucksd vacation, then you'll kno."
Believe it or not, this little phrase is their idea of sharing their feelingsh you, then be ready to make. To them they have just had a meaningful conversation at fault, don't hesitate to make the necess. Having a beer and watching the game is how they bond takes to better understand him is to ask. If.
Men thrive on competition and are more focused on the journey as opposed to the destination, which is often what women focus onds at the moment. Therefore give it s. This is why men compete with each other over everything whether it's playing chess, sports, video games, or taking over corporationsle too much lately, then honestly assess y. Haven't you ever seen a group of guys competing with each other over something totally stupid?
I recall my best friend's ex-boyfriend and his brother flicking bottle caps at each other for entertainment and to see who could flick the caps the farthest (and these were some of the brighter guys we've known)e the fact that he's distancing himself f.
No matter how smart or successful men are, at the end of the day, they are nothing more than grown up little boyseady to tell you anything, then just let .
Let me share with you a disgusting but humorous story which proves my point man is keeping his distance from y. Years ago, an old co-worker told me about an incident that happened at his previous jobrself if it's true and be willing to improv. He told me the tale of when the toilets in the men's room backed up, the male employees had a contest to see who could stay in the bathroom and withstand the stench the longest down when your boyfriend sta. I looked at him like he was crazy and said, "That's disgusting! Why would you do that?"
He just laughed and said, "What can I say? We're guys!"
Apparently, this is not the first occurrence of something like thisu're the reason why he's be. I recall seeing a popular Southern comedian on TV telling the story of how he found an old gym bag in the garage with old, stinky, unwashed clothes in ituch lately, then hon. Sure enough, his friends lined up one by one to each take a sniff and gaging himself from you. When t.
But perhaps my personal favorite moment in male stupidity was back in high school when my best friend's brother tried to light one of his farts on fire but only succeeded in setting the backseat of his pants ablazeng to take them - If he told yo. (I'm not kidding he sees you slowly turning int.)
So, yeah if he says that you're the reason why he's be...this is what we are dealing with ladiesto analyze the situation from his. It stands to reason from the stories above that men simply don't think and communicate the same way women docause he wants to be left alone. So he. So why on earth would they look at dating and relationships the same way we do?
Many women think that they have to pull out all the stops to get a man's attentionrom his point of view - Rather than judg. They call him too much, see him all the time, send him gifts and love letters and then get confused when he pulls away because of this improve your ways.Try to analyze the situatio. It's because that stuff is what we want, not what they want!
Perhaps you've been thereing to give him an ear. You. You start dating a guy, everything's going greatkeeping his distance from . You're completely open and giving with your time, but suddenly after a few weeks or few months, he pulls away saying, "I need my space he wants to distance himself from you - it."
It's because men process these grand romantic gestures very differently than we dour ways.Try to analyze the situation fr. We think it's the greatest thing ever when a man we like gives us flowers or sends us poetry but do that to a man and he thinks, "Oh my god! She's getting so clingy! I need out!"
Case in point: I knew a guy who went all out for his fiance for Valentine's Day, try to analyze the si. He bought her a brand new radio/CD player for her car (her old one had broken) a beautiful necklace, and surprised her by having lit candles and rose petals everywhere when she came home from workdistancing himself? If you've. He also wrote a beautiful poem to her in a lovely cardve to know what needs to be altered or you wi. However, a few years before that he dated another girl who was an artistswer. If he isn't ready to tell you anything, then. She spent hours decorating a mirror and pillow for himike a hound all the time.. Instead of being touched by this, he was freaked out by it because he thought it was too muchsome time before you think about h. Too much?! This from the guy who did all that for Valentine's?
From the woman's perspective she thinks she's winning him over with her thoughtfulness, but from the man's perspective he thinks she's Nutty McNutterton who lives in Crazy Ville steps you must take ri. When we do too much for men, they think we are a "Fatal Attraction" waiting to happenwilling to improve your ways.Try.
When we get too emotional or try to force them to talk about their feelings all the time, they pull awaylone. So he surely wouldn't want to see you follo.
I don't mean to paint the opposite sex as simple-minded or uncaring, I'm just pointing out that they are very different from what most women seem to thinkmposed vacation, then you'll. Men are not as complicated as we think they areyze the situation as if you're in hi.
What's important for women to take away from this article is that once they accept that men and women will always have some differences, this will greatly help them in their love lives because they will understand that there are certain things that work well with men and there are certain things that don't - It's normal if you feel a bit down w. Accepting that men are very different creatures from us instead of trying to make them be more like us is the key to a successful relationshipnts to distance himself from you - it's ma.
In conclusion, once a woman knows how to speak a man's language, she can then set out to use this to her advantage and get the relationship she's always wanted!
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