Building rapport with someone you have never met in your entire life is a bit of a challenge. However, establishing rapport is one of the cornerstones of interpersonal relationship. When you go out and socialize with other people you make sure that, you establish rapport first. You either introduce yourself first or get them into an interesting conversation. The same thing can be said when it comes to picking up girls. Before you get into the heart of your game, you need to make sure that you have established rapport with her. Several techniques can be used to establish rapport and one of the most popular techniques is called cold reading.
Cold reading is actually making an educated guess. However, you do not just guess without any basis because this will defeat the whole point of cold reading. When using this technique you will have to base your educated guess on her physical appearance, her mannerisms, her clothing, and the way she talks. You deduce these entire bases to come up with a comment that will make you appear as if you are reading her mind. You can keep these comments going and heighten her interest in you. In addition to that, you can also use to cold reading to make her see and feel that you are a fun guy to be with and that you are capable of understanding her in a manner that other men cannot.
Moreover, cold reading can also be used even when the girl you are attracted to is with the group. Yes, cold reading also involves group dynamics. This means that you involve the group. Take for example, based on her behaviour you think that she feisty, then you turn to the group and ask them whether she is feisty or not. This will disarm the group and they will be more receptive and from that point onward you can start working your magic.
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