When a relationship is nearing its end the people in it often stop talking to one another. Here are a couple of reasons why a man will or will not talk to you after he has lost all interest in you:
He still thinks of you as a friend
Sometimes even after you break up the guy still keeps in touch with you and talks to you because he considers you to be a friend. If you were friends first before you become lovers and then broke up amicably then he will still talk to you even if he has lost interest in you romantically.
You broke up on a bad note
If you and your man parted on a sour note and there was a lot of bad blood over the break up then the chances of him talking to you after are very few. Since there was nothing pleasant about the break up there will be nothing to talk about after.
He is not comfortable talking to you
Your comfort level after you break up plays a very crucial role in whether your man will still talk to you after losing interest in you romantically. If your man is not comfortable speaking with you alone or in the presence of others because of your history then he will not speak to you. Also if he knows that he has hurt you then he will avoid talking to you.
He feels that you moved on too fast
If you moved on too fast and are now in a satisfying relationship then it is less likely for your man to want to speak to you. He will feel a little let down that you moved on so quickly and replaced him in your life. Hence he will avoid speaking to you.
You both let bygones be bygones
Your man will still talk to you after having lost interest in you romantically if you both let bygones be bygones. If you are able to take his lack of interest objectively and don't play the guilt card then your man will continue to talk to you.
You both gave each other space after the break up
Every relationship needs some breathing space where the people that were in it can heal and get over the hurt or the disappointments. If you both have given each other this space then he will speak to you even after he has lost interest in you.
He is just being polite
Finally a man will speak to you after having lost interest in you if he doesn't want to be impolite and deal with any unpleasant situation that might come out of a confrontation.
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