In life, you will come to several crucial and defining moments. I would like to use this opportunity to create such a moment. I want to do this by presenting a different angle to the area that many men are concerned with: money and dating. The views commonly represented by the media and the society are, in my experience, very skewed as compared to reality. Let's take a look and see how these impact your life.
As a man, you are taught from an early age that you must have money. You know that at some point you will have to take care of your family, including your wife. Even though, the media makes it look like women want to contribute, the fact is no woman grows up hoping that she is going to be the bread-winner of her family.
In fact, money women are taught to believe that once they have enough money, they do not need a man in their life.
Now, you may have realized that many men are stuck in a vicious cycle trying to impress women. Instead of managing money wisely, men spend on expensive gifts in order to please women.
Imagine how much it costs to buy just the engagement ring! The modern man has been programmed to tie his self-esteem with the amount of money he can afford to spend attracting and courting a woman.
Here is what you have to understand: when you don't have an income stream that increases in value even while you're asleep you've already lost the game.
That's because, you will not get this money back. Forget the romantic nonsense about the value the woman will bring into your life. First of all, you are in the relationship too, why doesn't that attract "monetary value"?
Secondly, all you need to do is to take a look around and see how many women walk away with half the money their ex-husbands made. According to statistics, 70% of all divorce cases are initiated by women.
There is another very important fact to look at. Whenever a woman above 21 years of age tells other women she met a new man there usually one thing that comes to their mind first. Can you guess what it is?
Well, the first thing they want to know is what you do for a living! You can still work around this but first, you have to know how to really play this game.
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