All guys want to get a woman to enjoy a powerful, sexual, physical relationship. It's a basic law of nature.
Are you like most guys that dream of being like guys in the movies or books, or even other guys you know, who seem to have a magnetic effect for attracting women into passionate, sexual relationships? They're the ones that girls are always drawn to. And the weird thing is that they are not all superhero hunks with bulging biceps and ripped abdominals. But they seem to have an almost supernatural hold over practically every woman they meet.
All these guys know how to get a woman. The cool thing is, you can learn how to do just the same.
To become the kind of babe magnet that you've always dreamed of, you need to understand what it is that makes a woman find you attractive (whatever your looks). Whether it's nature or nurture, the fact is that most women you meet are going to have a very different set of triggers for arousal and sexual attraction than most guys. If you don't know what triggers a woman's passion, you will never have success with women. Want to know what these things are?
Read on...
1. Women are emotional beings.
Okay, there are some girls out there who are pretty physical from the outset but they are the rare exceptions. Most women respond most powerfully to their emotional nature. So you need to tune in to how she feels far more than how she looks. If you can reflect and appeal to her feelings and her emotional self, you are already well on the way to achieving your goal. This doesn't mean you have to be some kind of sap. We're talking about passion, sensuality, temptation. You just have to understand that for a woman, the triggers for this are more about feelings than looks.
2. Confidence is King.
It's a fundamental instinct in the females of almost all species to want to feel protected, safe and secure. A guy who doesn't offer this has little chance of getting a girl. Girls need to feel safe to feel turned on. It's no good being too shy or insecure. You don't want to be a self-obsessed pea, but you do want to show relaxed confidence in yourself and what you do. Girls can be friends with insecure guys, but they won't be lovers. The most potent way to attract any woman is to be quietly and unshakeably confident. This is the key that will unlock the door to her deepest instincts. And that is just what you want to unlock.
3. Women need time.
Guys would generally be happy to jump into bed with a girl they are attracted to even without knowing her name. That is totally not the case with women. They need to get to know someone first. They need conversation, a little discrete flattery, an interest in them as the people they are not just the flesh they carry. If you can't make a woman feel respected, you're a no-hoper. You know the best way, hands down, to make her feel respected? Easy: respect her. This doesn't mean you have to marry her and settle down but it does mean you have respect that she is a person not an object. Guys who are babe magnets always show real, genuine respect for their women.
4. Understand non-verbal communication.
This is sometimes called 'body language' and it is exactly that. Women will give you lots of subtle, physical sign of how they are feeling and responding to you. If she doesn't meet your eyes, if she crosses her arms or angles herself away from you, you're not getting there. If she toys with her hair, inclines towards you, looks away quickly when you look at her because she's been secretly watching you, then things are going your way. There is a lot of body language to learn. Look out for it and it will come with experience.
Follow this advice and you'll soon be a babe magnet guy. Other guys will be looking at you and wondering just what your magic ingredient is. You can smile confidently to yourself knowing that you will never have to wonder again about how to get a woman to be sexually attracted to you.
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