Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Make Your First Date a Success

A little bit stressed about the first date?

First dates can be so exciting and at the same time a little bit stressful just before that precious time. You can be all nervous because you don't know what to wear, what to say, you want to impress the other person. You want to be at your best.

To have a successful first date, here are some tips to follow:

Before the day of the date, create it in the energy. See it, feel it like it was already there. Put every details. You will attract what you create.

Be you, be natural! Why trying to be somebody else? Staying authentic starts from the first date. Show your natural side, the way you dress usually, speak from your heart. Never pretend to be someone else. If you do, nothing will last because the natural side will always come back.

One mandatory thing: Relax and stay calm. If you are in your natural mode, it will happen and you will be calm. Both of you are human beings, just breath, enjoy each moments and laugh together.

Be a great listener. In fact, both of you share parts of who you are and smile at each other. Do not interrupt what the other is saying, just listen. Stay in the present moment.

Show your interest about the other person. Ask her/him questions about favorite activities, holidays, music, also their passion. Always ask positive questions. It's also not the time to tell about our bad life stories and start complaining.

If your date is in a restaurant, avoid any meals with onions, garlic or even to juicy like ribs where you will have food all over your teeth and hands. Stay simple but at the same time just be there for the other person instead of focusing on your food.

Do not drink too much. You might be real nervous and often people in that case will have a few drinks. The problem is it can turn into too much drinks. And this way you will miss every important moment of that evening.

Be relax all the time. Don't try anything just be. After your diner, just go out for more activities. Be spontaneous. These are the best moments that the other person will remember for a long time.

Just enjoy and have fun. Discover the other person with respect and love. Believe in yourself, believe this going to be a memorable time.



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