Flirting With Women - How to Make It EASY To Flirt With a Woman

I am going to say something that I think a lot of men can relate to, but don't feel like they have the right to say it. Flirting with a woman can be HARD. For most guys, when they are flirting with a woman, this thought is somewhere in the back of their mind. It should be easy, and on the surface it seems that way. But, when you are trying to make a woman feel attracted to you, it can seem pretty difficult to say the least. Especially when it seems like the woman is in the driver's seat, and you are just along for the ride. Wouldn't it be nice if there was a way that you could make flirting seem EASY?

One of the challenges that men face is the simple fact that you are not supposed to admit that it can be hard to flirt with a woman. The usual male bravado is to take on the attitude like you know exactly what to say and do, but the truth is... most men don't. If they did, then they wouldn't have any trouble getting the women that they wanted to get, right?

Well, here are a few tips that can make it seem easier to flirt with a woman:

1. When you feel like you have to make her like you, it's always going to seem HARD.

Trying to feel like you have to make a woman like you is a challenge that most men really cannot face. It's difficult simply because you ARE putting HER in the position of power. You are giving her all of the power to pick and choose how she feels about you. Why not give yourself some of that power back and instead focus on seeing whether or not you like her? See, if you do that, not only will you feel less PRESSURE, but it also spins things around so that you have some choice in the matter. Too often guys get blinded by the way a woman looks, and then they feel like they have to try and win her over, when all the while, they are not thinking about what they want.

2. If you are going to flirt with a woman, do yourself a favor and loosen up just a tad.

One of the easiest ways to make someone else feel uncomfortable is for YOU to look all tensed up and uptight. Knock that off and loosen up. It's much easier to talk to someone when they seem nice and relaxed and it's almost impossible for a woman to feel uncomfortable if you seem totally at ease. That kind of thing is contagious, and she will more than likely relax if that is the way that you are.

3. Stay away from trying too hard to be the wittiest guy she has ever met.

This is another area where most men put the pressure on themselves when they are flirting with a woman. If you are trying to have the wittiest conversation that she has ever had, chances are... you will fail. You are going to put too much pressure on yourself to come up with the perfect joke, it will feel awkward at some point and you will lose your grip on her. Instead, just be amusing, amuse yourself, and she will follow.

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