Hot To Attract Girls - The Psychology Of Hotness

When you're learning how to attract girls that are nines and tens, you have to do things a little bit differently. They have the psychology of hotness - all their lives people have been interested in them. They've seen and heard everything. The game is the same, but there are a few rules that are just a little bit different.

Broken Frames

One of the crazy things nines and tens will do is that they'll break your frames. Sexual framing techniques work great with girls that are pretty or cute, but they don't work so well for the ultra-hot. They may work sometimes, but hot girls will break them.

For example, if you say, 'I can tell that you're an independent girl,' a regular girl who's cute or pretty but lacks sexual confidence will answer, 'Oh yeah, I am independent.'

Nines and tens will snap the frame into pieces. They'll say something like, 'I don't know. I depend a lot on my family.' The reason they'll do this is because they always have people telling them about themselves, trying to manipulate them and so on. A nine or ten has had lots of guys do that just to get them in bed.

The Qualifying Challenge

Hot girls also don't qualify themselves as much as other women. When you try to qualify them, they'll just refuse to answer. I've had a hot girl say to me, 'I'm not really going to answer that question.' When I pointed out how unfriendly that was, she said, 'I don't have to explain myself to anyone.' Again, they're used to that.

When you qualify really hot girls, you've got to do it subtly using push backs. It's like Bugs Bunny's reverse psychology tricks. Tell her, 'I'll be you're really dependent and needy in relationships.' She'll break it by saying, 'No way, I'm independent.'

Keep It Ambiguous And Cool

With nines and tens, don't over-commit. This is what lots of guys do and it's a huge mistake. Instead, keep her guessing. Have her swinging from validation to de-validation, never know where she's at with you. Wait until she's definitely showing attracting and it's really on before you show any commitment. Until then, keep it ambiguous.

You can easily learn how to attract girls that are on the ultra-hot end of the scale; just change up your game a little bit and practice. It's well worth it when you finally take one home.

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