Have you ever considered the implications of the fact there are distinct differences in perspective, thought processes, and behaviors based on which side of the brain you use? We all use both sides to varying degrees; however, men tend to predominantly use the left hemisphere of the brain, while women the right. In your pursuit of attracting women, why not adapt your style of thinking to one that allows you to understand women better, be more in-sync with them, communicate more effectively with them, and consequently, become tremendously more attractive to them?
In every individual, one side of the brain tends to dominate the other and conducts our perspective through its dominant lens. Let's start off by defining the characteristics of the left brain:
- The left hemisphere is analytical, logical and detail-oriented
- It processes information in a linear, segmented way
- It is judges reality and comes to conclusions based on empirical evidence
- It is disciplined and adheres to "the rules".
- It is stable, structured, rigid and efficient
- It likes to plan, organize, and focus on calculable results
- It considers time frames and prefers to work within defined parameters, i.e "in the box" thinking.
- It suffers the stresses of uncertainty and risk
The right hemisphere on the other hand, is quite different: It's the outgoing and friendly side of you, that adds color, passion and excitement to you experiences. It is the side that women use more often. The right brain is:
- funny; it is where a sense of humor resides.
- creative and artistic, and exceptional at visualization.
- expressive, and associated with forming first impressions.
- If you appreciate music, it is responsible for your rhythm.
- spontaneous and a risk-taker.
- flexible and likes variety.
- intuitive and tends to understand the whole picture.
Since women use their right brain more, it is important for a man like you who wants to attract them, to learn to understand and use more of your 'right-brain' faculties. Doing so will benefit you with such things as your charm, sense of humor, and good taste in clothes (which women find physically attractive in a man). Furthermore, you will also be able to relate better, communicate better, and 'read' a woman's emotion and feeling. Women will find you a blast to be with, as you will be spontaneous, charismatic and fun, not to mention truly Confident, which is the attribute that women admire most.
Of course, everyone is able to use both sides of the brain in varying degrees. You need both. However for some things, as in the attraction of women, you can benefit from a greater degree of right-brain thinking. With increased awareness, you will be able to shift your brain function accordingly in order to exploit the attractive and charismatic features that your right hemisphere has to offer you. Once unleashed, it has the potential to transform you into someone quite appealing to women.
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