Finding the right man is a difficult process if you don't know what you are doing. Psychologists at the University of Pennsylvania studied data from over 10,000 speed daters and found that most people make a decision regarding a person's attraction within three seconds of meeting. Those findings absolutely prove one thing beyond a shadow of a doubt - ladies you must learn how to attract men with body language as a starting point!
Let's face it, the first signals sent between a man and a woman are non-verbal. The messages you send with your body must be powerful and you have 3 seconds to score the first points.
Ladies we are wonderfully made by our Creator and we have the necessary allurements to make a very definite impression on the men we survey. There are three powerful tactics that work on just about any man and you can become very proficient at making an inviting impression on that handsome man across the room. It may surprise you that the most powerful body language techniques involve body parts that are all above the neck.
Your first signals must be sent with your eyes. Why do you think that we spend so much of our make up budget on the eyes? If you make eye contact with a man in a crowded room the message is unmistakeable. Once eye contact is established you should offer a smile. This is as old as time itself and it has always been the initial first step in the dance. Many women get distracted and glance away just when an additional couple of seconds would send a screaming signal to most men. The key at this point is to not stare or glare. Make eye contact, smile, then look away. You might try a rinse and repeat. If your good looking gentleman doesn't come over to introduce himself then his antenna isn't working.
The second successful tactic is to use your lips. Let's assume your object of desire has come over to your table and introduced himself and engaged in some conversation. If you like what you see and feel interested in further pursuit you could curl your lips in another smile. Smiles are like scoreboards at ball games, they let men know how the game is going. Another tactic would be to gently and subtily lick your lips. Another way of drawing attention to your mouth is to eat something slowly and intentionally. A man gravitates to a woman's lips and you can speak volumes with the lips and tongue!
The final tactic is to speak the language of attraction with your hair. If your encounter is showing signs of promise you could run your fingers through your hair. When a woman runs her fingers through her hair and brushes it away from her face or neck she is sub-consciously exposing more of her skin and there is a powerful effect on most men. A gentle toss of the head can have the same effect.
If all is going well up to this point you might notice your prospective date moving in closer to talk. He might even touch your hand or arm while speaking and it would be appropriate to touch his forearm in response. Hopefully this encounter will end with an exchange of numbers and a blossoming relationship.
Learning the power of body language to attract men gives you a fighting chance in those first 3 seconds!
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