How to Turn the First Date Into a Serious Relationship

You can turn the first date into a serious relationship with careful planning. It starts off with a good profile that is descriptive, thorough and not made up. So many people fabricate their profile which makes it difficult to get a good match. You need to provide great photos of yourself that are clear and professional looking.

Wear clothing that accents your skin tone without any props such as a cat, teddy bear or holding anything in front of you. The dating service you join needs to perform screening and background checks to weed out the losers.

Now that your profile is the way you want it, you can try looking for a compatible match. It may take several dates to find the right match, so don't let it get you down. By now you think you've found your dream date, but it needs to go both ways, so now it's time to plan your date. You will be nervous, so make a list of questions you want to ask your date.

When dressing for your date, wear nice casual clothes such as a button down shirt and nice jeans or casual slacks. Don't wear graffiti type T-Shirts or worn out jeans. You want to make a good impression.

Girls need to wear a nice blouse and slacks with hair combed nicely. You want to look fresh for your first and follow-up dates. Don't be over-bearing or controlling or you will lose. Guys need to show respect and courtesy to their gal.

You need to be on time and make the first date short. It only takes 30 seconds to know if you like someone, so if you don't like this person, your time was not wasted and you can move on to the next one. You believe you really like this person and you want to spend more time with her. It's time to call her and make a second date.

If she accepts, you are ready to ask your questions. You need to talk about hobbies and interests because that's the foundation of two people doing things together. Now that you have found some common interest, that's the subject you need to talk about. Continue seeing each other will turn your first date into a serious relationship.

Now that you've been seeing her for a few months, you have romantic feelings. Tell her how you feel and don't fear rejection. She probably feels the same way, but fears rejection also. So many dating couples won't say anything, but they continue to see each other while their feelings are eating them up.

The pressure mounts and it is wearing down the relationship. Holding back your feelings is the biggest mistake you can make because she may fear being alone. Plan it right and your first date can turn into a serious relationship taking you to the chapel.