Friday, June 1, 2012

Want To Know How To Keep A Guy Interested And Why Men Pull Away?

Surprisingly a great deal of women find their selves confused to why men pull away and understand how to keep a guy interested. Sadly for the majority of us we do not succeed in finding out the reasons why. So if you are confused to why men pull away then take some good advice to put you back on the right track.

Let's make up a story that may have applied to you. You have just come across this person and he has taken you out on a couple of dates treated you with respect and you have fallen head over heels for him. Suddenly out of nowhere your world crashes down on you and you get dumped. Just when you thought life had turned around for you this happens and it is probably happened before. However you don't want this to happen again right?

Stop what you are doing because you are going to ascertain how to keep a guy interested to why men pull away and make the right choice of man for you.

My dream was to write a book on the subject of relationships and how to make them work why? Simple answer I was no good at it up until now and it seemed a good way to make me a better person.

What I did not realise at the time just what an in-depth subject this is so this presented more of a test than I previously thought it would be. My next step was to scour the internet to find out as much information as could on the subject and in the process bought quite a few books which I would like to share with you what I have learnt.

How to discover the best guy for you

As I was looking through the page titles this one title jumped out at me why? I couldn't think of any woman that would not want to find out this information. What I am about to tell you may offend you but you are most definitely making the wrong choice in men.

If you have something that you really enjoy doing to the extent you are passionate about it then to share this with someone you love is a natural thing to do right? Taking that into consideration look for a man that feels passionate on the same subjects as you. That could be to help the starving children in Africa or charity work of some kind. Warning I don't mean what you do for a living.

If nothing comes to mind immediately then get a note pad and create a list of your passions that you would like to do in your life if money was not an issue. You need to have at least dozens things to get started.

Now you know exactly what you want or what you feel passionate about then at the next opportunity when you are on a date put this into practice. Don't be boring and talk about his job or how much money he makes that clearly does not cut it. What you really want to know is what he feels passionate about avoid direct confrontation bring it up in a conversational manner see if you are passionate about the same things. By putting this simple method into practice it will eliminate the thought to why men pull away.

Sadly for me that is all for now when there is great deal more I would like to share with you. On the other hand my goal was to put you in the right frame of mind to discover much more information later to why men pull away that you would probably never arrive at.

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