I Want To Get Married But My Boyfriend Doesn't

You have been dating him for quite a long time now and you think that he should want to marry you. He has told you many times that he loves you and cares for you and that you are the woman of his dreams. As far as you are concerned you will be together forever. You want that magical moment between the two of you that is so romantic. This may have been the best relationship that you have ever had and you are really committed to it. You have always felt like you made a great couple and both of you are loving and supportive. He may put up with many of you neuroses in a very charming and graceful way and when you are feeling down he can really make you laugh. This guy has won the hearts of your family and friends but he doesn't want to get married.

You probably assumed that you would eventually get married since he probably did everything else that you have asked and you know he really loves you. He may treat you like a queen and you feel it too! Deep down though you may have a feeling of wanting to be more complete and you keep telling yourself and all of your friends, I want to get married. This kind of just nags at your insides and even though you also really love him and want that everlasting romance story you feel like it is just not going to happen for you. Maybe not and maybe it might just work with a certain amount of effort on your part.

Maybe he has said he doesn't want to get married because of all of the other marriages that he has heard about and how they didn't last. I guess no one has ever told him that it may not last like it is now either, especially since you want more. But, he thinks that paper is the most binding commitment that he will ever sign and maybe he is not ready to get married, and maybe he is just not ready to marry you! That is something that you have to really take into consideration. Just because a man loves you and says he cares about you doesn't mean that he wants to marry you. Your boyfriend may not want to get married at all. He may have all sorts of excuses not to get married. It is up to you to find out why he doesn't though. He may not even know the real reason himself.