There are many types of body language but, we are going to talk about the 4 that are important in getting a girl. They are eye cues, sitting, walking and talking. You have to make sure that you are sending out a complete image with all four of these types of body language. Mess up on any one of them and you will been seen as dishonest or as a fake.
First you need to decide what type of girl you are going to pursue. Do you want submissive or dominate? Confident or unsure? The reason you need to decide this is you have to send out the opposite signals as she is. Girls want someone who adds to who they are and opposites attract. Once you have decided what type of woman you want you have to always display the opposite body language. You never know when you will catch a woman's attention so you always have to be ready.
The first type of body language we are going to discuss is eye movements. So much information is sent by her eyes. Is she happy? Is she sad? Is she remembering a good memory? All of this can be read from her eye movements. You can tell how a woman is thinking by which direction her eyes move. If she is looking up she is using her visual mind, she is picturing something. If she looks down she is having an emotional reaction to what is being said, for example remembering a good time with her family. If she looks to the right, usually she is remembering something. If she looks to the left she is being creative. Sometimes the left and the right are reversed, you need to give her a few tests to find out which cues she uses. Keep in mind that these cues can be combined, up and left could mean she's visualizing a concept that she's never thought of before. You can see how powerful reading these signals can be.
The next type of body language is how to sit. This is probably the most common position you will be in when you meet women. Do not slouch! Take up as much room as you comfortably can. Spread your legs out let everyone in the room know that this is your space. Also keep a constant watch on where your head is, lowering your head is a sign of weakness. You always need to project an image of confidence.
Understand that the moment you walk into a room you are being judged. You have to show everyone that you are a confident man, and how you walk says a lot about you. Take wide strides and keep your head up. Make eye contact with everyone. You will notice that you get a lot more attention by simply walking like you are confident.
Talking can be the hardest to do right, you have to keep a friendly and lite atmosphere. Your conversations have to be fun and you have to be truly having a good time. If you are all worked up and nervous it will come though in how you talk and what you say. Stay calm and have fun. Remember to smile and laugh a lot. Do not get too serious, there's time for that later.
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