*From a female side of view, please take time to read*
You just broke up with your ex-boyfriend, I know it's hard I've been there but as what everyone's telling you right now, MOVE ON! You don't have any other choice but to move on. Do you want to be like that forever? Don't you want to be happy? Do you deserve this feeling? No! You deserve to be happy! Always put that in mind. I'm going to show you a list of the things that can help you to move on and this is based from my experience. I know this is going to be hard but if you will try to follow my advice then you are good to go.
First thing you must really do is PRAY. Whether you are religious or not, you must pray. If you don't know HIM, I will introduce HIM to you. He's your father, the perfect father you've been looking for. You have problem? Your heart is aching right now? Full of hatred, anger and pain? Ask HIM to remove those from you, ask HIM to heal your heart. He can do that, HE IS OUR HEALER. That won't leave immediately but HE will help you through that process. Believe me, I've been there a lot of times. Who helped me? NO ONE EXCEPT FROM HIM. My mom? She never knew anything about my love life. Friends? Yes, they can help you by giving advice just like what I'm doing right now but HE, Our GOD can help us heal the pain in our hearts.
Second, do not sing the song "only reminds me of you". Keep away all the things and memories that will make you remember him. If he like this movie, don't watch it while crying. If this is his favorite song, don't listen to it while crying. You're just hurting yourself, if you really want to move on you should avoid these things.
Third, do not torture yourself. Don't eat a lot of food and don't eat lesser than you normally intake. Either you will get fat or you will get sick and if he sees you being like that he will think that you are still crazy over him. We wouldn't want that.
Fourth, stand straight and chin up. Show him that you are not hurting anymore. That you have already moved on(even if not totally moved on), that you can actually live without him.
Fifth, always follow your mind over your heart. HEART IS THE MOST DECEIPTFUL THING ON EARTH. Even your own heart can deceive (fool) you so don't get affected. Yes, you have to follow your heart but in this case you should follow what your mind says because it is for your own good.
Listen to good and happy songs instead of heartbroken songs. Watch a funny movie or rather inspirational than heartbreaking or romance movies. Shop until you drop but don't lose all your money because you will be needing that to get a makeover and a full body massage for yourself with your best girl friends.
You may still be blind right now and all you can see is him, him and him but if you will give yourself more time to move on, you will realize he's not worthy because he has hurt you and that someone(your real prince) will come along soon.
Thanks for reading and God bless you!
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