Hot To Attract Girls - The Psychology Of Hotness

When you're learning how to attract girls that are nines and tens, you have to do things a little bit differently. They have the psychology of hotness - all their lives people have been interested in them. They've seen and heard everything. The game is the same, but there are a few rules that are just a little bit different.

Broken Frames

One of the crazy things nines and tens will do is that they'll break your frames. Sexual framing techniques work great with girls that are pretty or cute, but they don't work so well for the ultra-hot. They may work sometimes, but hot girls will break them.

For example, if you say, 'I can tell that you're an independent girl,' a regular girl who's cute or pretty but lacks sexual confidence will answer, 'Oh yeah, I am independent.'

Nines and tens will snap the frame into pieces. They'll say something like, 'I don't know. I depend a lot on my family.' The reason they'll do this is because they always have people telling them about themselves, trying to manipulate them and so on. A nine or ten has had lots of guys do that just to get them in bed.

The Qualifying Challenge

Hot girls also don't qualify themselves as much as other women. When you try to qualify them, they'll just refuse to answer. I've had a hot girl say to me, 'I'm not really going to answer that question.' When I pointed out how unfriendly that was, she said, 'I don't have to explain myself to anyone.' Again, they're used to that.

When you qualify really hot girls, you've got to do it subtly using push backs. It's like Bugs Bunny's reverse psychology tricks. Tell her, 'I'll be you're really dependent and needy in relationships.' She'll break it by saying, 'No way, I'm independent.'

Keep It Ambiguous And Cool

With nines and tens, don't over-commit. This is what lots of guys do and it's a huge mistake. Instead, keep her guessing. Have her swinging from validation to de-validation, never know where she's at with you. Wait until she's definitely showing attracting and it's really on before you show any commitment. Until then, keep it ambiguous.

You can easily learn how to attract girls that are on the ultra-hot end of the scale; just change up your game a little bit and practice. It's well worth it when you finally take one home.

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Use Your Right Hemisphere for the Right Moves

Have you ever considered the implications of the fact there are distinct differences in perspective, thought processes, and behaviors based on which side of the brain you use? We all use both sides to varying degrees; however, men tend to predominantly use the left hemisphere of the brain, while women the right. In your pursuit of attracting women, why not adapt your style of thinking to one that allows you to understand women better, be more in-sync with them, communicate more effectively with them, and consequently, become tremendously more attractive to them?

In every individual, one side of the brain tends to dominate the other and conducts our perspective through its dominant lens. Let's start off by defining the characteristics of the left brain:

- The left hemisphere is analytical, logical and detail-oriented

- It processes information in a linear, segmented way

- It is judges reality and comes to conclusions based on empirical evidence

- It is disciplined and adheres to "the rules".

- It is stable, structured, rigid and efficient

- It likes to plan, organize, and focus on calculable results

- It considers time frames and prefers to work within defined parameters, i.e "in the box" thinking.

- It suffers the stresses of uncertainty and risk

The right hemisphere on the other hand, is quite different: It's the outgoing and friendly side of you, that adds color, passion and excitement to you experiences. It is the side that women use more often. The right brain is:

- funny; it is where a sense of humor resides.

- creative and artistic, and exceptional at visualization.

- expressive, and associated with forming first impressions.

- If you appreciate music, it is responsible for your rhythm.

- spontaneous and a risk-taker.

- flexible and likes variety.

- intuitive and tends to understand the whole picture.

Since women use their right brain more, it is important for a man like you who wants to attract them, to learn to understand and use more of your 'right-brain' faculties. Doing so will benefit you with such things as your charm, sense of humor, and good taste in clothes (which women find physically attractive in a man). Furthermore, you will also be able to relate better, communicate better, and 'read' a woman's emotion and feeling. Women will find you a blast to be with, as you will be spontaneous, charismatic and fun, not to mention truly Confident, which is the attribute that women admire most.

Of course, everyone is able to use both sides of the brain in varying degrees. You need both. However for some things, as in the attraction of women, you can benefit from a greater degree of right-brain thinking. With increased awareness, you will be able to shift your brain function accordingly in order to exploit the attractive and charismatic features that your right hemisphere has to offer you. Once unleashed, it has the potential to transform you into someone quite appealing to women.

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Dating Chinese Girls at Christmas

dating Chinese girls at Christmas? Or want to know if it's important to your Chinese girlfriend, either online or in person. Maybe you think Christmas is a western celebration so Chinese people don't really care about it.

Well, be careful if you think that way, as you may miss the perfect chance to impress your potential girlfriend or even make an embarrassing mistake by thinking it's not important to her.

Chinese celebrations and Christmas

The most popular celebration in China, is the 'spring festival', you will probably more commonly know this as 'Chinese new year'. This is the closest equivalent to Christmas that the Chinese have. During spring festival week, pretty much all the shops close and everyone stays with their family, just like it is for us at Christmas.

So, do the Chinese actually care about, or celebrate Christmas? Well surprisingly, the answer is 'yes', but they don't celebrate it the same as westerners.

Christmas in China

When I first moved to mainland China years ago, no one cared about Christmas at all. It was a foreign holiday that had no place whatsoever in Chinese culture. It was truly a joy to be able to go to any restaurant on Christmas day, and then onto a bar later to celebrate.

It was so different from back home, where everything basically closed down, and everyone had family duties to attend to. Christmas in China was great. Note I said 'was'!

Chinese Culture and assimilation

The interesting thing about Chinese culture is that no other invading countries culture has ever been able to change it in any noticeable way. The Mongols themselves after invading China a couple of generations later, had given up on trying to change the indigenous Chinese and essentially started to follow Chinese culture and practice themselves.

Any Mongolian customs were simply assimilated, and thereafter classed as 'Chinese culture'!

Something similar, and a bit strange, is now happening with Christmas day in China.

The 'New' Chinese Lovers Day

In China between June, to the end of August, and following the lunar calendar, is what is known commonly as 'Chinese lovers day'. On this day although there are some traditional things people are supposed to do, most Chinese couples simply do what westerners traditionally do on Valentines day, and go out for a romantic meal.

By the way, Chinese people also celebrate Valentines day too! And this is where Christmas day enters.

Chinese people now celebrate Christmas day as a romantic valentines day, part three, you could say.

Dating Chinese Girls at Christmas Advice

If you are dating Chinese girls, they will expect you to spend this holiday with them by taking them for a romantic meal; and generally doing some romantic things with her/for her, will be much appreciated.

But forget to pay her any attention on this day, and she will really be disappointed. It's no matter to her that it's a western religious festival that isn't part of her culture. She'll only care that all her other friends are going out with their boyfriends and she is not!

If your girlfriend is thousands of miles away then a romantic email, or even a phone call will probably do the trick.

One final piece of advice, if you are in mainland China and are dating Chinese girls at Christmas, then make sure you book a table at a restaurant before the day, as if you don't, you'll be lucky if you can find a table in KFC, let alone another restaurant. Still, chicken is always a favorite in China, so you could do worse really.

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What to Text a Girl to Make Her Want You

To start off building attraction with a girl through text messaging you first need to establish a deeper connection with her. The attraction does not start building itself as soon as you start texting her. You need to "warm her up", per say by getting to know her better, this could include figuring out her likes, dislikes, things that she's passionate about. It also extremely benefits you if you and her share some topic of interest she can relate to you on. This shared topic will stimulate discussion potentially to a level where you can start building attraction with her.

By covering a topic that you and her are both interested in, this gives you the possibility of doing something together. Now you shouldn't outright say let's go here and do this, you should do it subtly so that she notices but can tell you aren't stating that you want to date her right now. This will also give you several ideas for dates in the future.

Example:

Her: I love the snow!

You: So do I! When it snows, were definitely going to have a snowball fight

Her: Lol Sure.

You: You'd better dress warm, because the fight is on;)

Now if you notice in this example you don't force her to say yes to hanging out with you in the future, you just slightly hint to doing something together. Also the conversation is not serious and it is in a joking nature, signaling to her that you like to have fun and enjoy excitement. It's a good idea to keep these ideas in mind, because next time it actually does snow you can text her and tell her it's time for that snowball fight. Also do not suggest too many things close together, as this will come off to her that you are desperate, and that is unattractive.

If used correctly, this can be one of the most powerful ways to build attraction and can quickly escalate to building sexual tension that will make her go wild over you.

There are several things to note about this approach. You don't want to come off as weak, as if you were asking her permission for the future event. If she rejects a future suggestion like this just tease her with something like "Booo someone's a party pooper!" something like that.

If you use this info you will improve your texting game, and turn some of those cold numbers in your phone into relationships with women that are warming up. There are several strategies that are not noted in this article.

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I Know Why You Want to Marry an Online Russian Bride

A Russian's beauty is really remarkable. Their characteristics are really beyond other women in the world. Well, I am not telling you that other women in the world are not exceptional as well. These Russian beauties have defined themselves amongst women around the globe that they have become famous for being the best brides and wives ever.

What are the characteristics of Online Russian brides that compels many single men to travel to their place and marry them?

• One major concern of a Russian woman is to find the ideal man, and have a happy marriage with him.

• When they get married, they would like to have children and ensure that her children will be healthy and happy.

• To help their husbands, they also want to ensure a successful career in their chosen fields.

As we can see, they really want to focus on their family and their marriage. A true responsible woman should be like that. Maybe that's the key reason why a former Miss Universe gave up her crown. It was on 2002 when the first Russian Miss Universe was crowned. She bagged almost all the special awards and a designer even customized a doll for her. She went to many countries and helped the foundation of Miss Universe but at some point decided to give up her crown for personal reasons. She was rumored to be pregnant. The crown was passed to the 1st runner up which was Miss Panama that time and she continued to perform the tasks that Miss Russia left.

I have searched the Internet and asked some of my guy friends who have married Russian women. Why did they choose to marry a Russian Bride they met online and not a woman from the same neighborhood as theirs? Listed below are the top reasons why:

1. A man will marry a Russian woman because she is beautiful. As I've said, Russian women are exceptionally gorgeous - they can make a man really fall in love with just one single look. Her eyes, her hair, her body and the way she carries herself are just some of the physical traits men adore about Russian women.

2. A man will marry a Russian woman due to her values. Her friendliness, cheerfulness and her concern for others are some of the traits that make men choose to marry Russian women. She understands how to control her temper and thinks before she speaks.

3. A man will marry a Russian woman because she is dedicated. She is very much willing to give up her career and concentrate only on the family and the kids. Not all women are willing to do that. She will make sure that she will take good care of the family and most especially ensuring that her husband finds real joy and happiness by her side. She cooks healthy and nutritious food for her family and will make certain that they are eating balanced meals.

4. A man will marry a Russian woman because she is willing to help him. In times of trouble or downfall, she is there to offer her support. For the duration of a financial crisis, she will look for an opportunity to help her husband with their money problems, without compromising the well being of the family.

5. Lastly, a man will marry a Russian woman because she is ready to spend the rest of her life with him. Marriage isn't play time wherein if you get tired, you can easily quit leaving behind the kids with no complete home. A man marries an Online Russian Bride because she loves him so much and she is very much willing to sustain the family for the rest of her life. She cares about the well being of the kids and she will fight for the family no matter what.

When I heard those things, I was amazed in the way they tell the story about their Russian wives. They are really exceptional and they value their family so much. In spite of all the controversies that Russian brides have online, they still manage to define themselves in such a way that other women want to have the qualities they have as well.

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5 Ways to Tell That He's Into You

How will you discover if a man is truly fascinated with you? It would've been a lot better if he just opted to utter it out loud and not beat around the bush, leaving the both of you quite relieved. However, you may not know that he is in reality showing signs of attraction towards you. If so, below are the ways in which you'll tell if you have got someone who has taken a genuine liking towards you:

1. He essentially invites you to be with him at some place where there is no one about. That is one sign of him in fact wanting to get to know you quite a lot better and going beyond the friendship barrier. In short, he's essentially asking you out on a date, and you might not even know it.

2. He continually makes a point to be at his best behavior. A number of men in the world have this desire to impress a woman they are interested in. This is essentially one of the age-old traditions that men must comply with if they actually would like to be seen in a favorable light.

3. When the both of you are talking to each other, he in reality listens to what you have to say. Most men just nod and mind other concerns while you're talking with them, which means that they're in reality thinking about everything else except the things you are sharing with him. A man who's surely interested in you'll would like to get to know you more and listen to all the stories you have to tell him, despite whatever is taking up his time.

4. A guy who's interested by you essentially remembers all the significant dates of your life, especially your birthday or some special moment you spent together. Not all men are equipped with excellent memory, so if they opt to throw a party for your pet or something along those lines, he's essentially THAT into you.

5. He in reality makes every compliment he makes towards you, even if you do not see it. Many men show signs of attraction when they tell a woman how awesome she in fact is, even when she feels she is rather flawed or damaged in some aspects. If he actually compliments you for looking good even when you just got out of bed, then he is certainly interested in you.

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2 Super Hot Ways To Make A Guy Feel Massive Attraction Towards You! Dazzle Him With This

Are you interested in learning how to make a guy feel massive attraction towards you? Do you want your guy to be constantly thinking of you? Do you want to mesmerize him and make him truly addicted to you? If you've had trouble with attracting and keeping men in your life in the past, don't worry. You can dazzle any guy and make him truly addicted to you if you know what you are doing.

Some women do it effortlessly. These women are the ones that we call as naturals. The naturals do it unconsciously. But you have to learn the art of creating massive attraction in a guy and consciously do it until it becomes effortless for you. It's possible. Any woman can have any man she wants if she is willing to do what it takes to make the man attracted to her.

Here are the super hot ways to make a guy feel massive attraction towards you...

Create the initial spark - The initial spark is extremely important when it comes to attracting men. Without it, you will have a hard time attracting men. Men tend to give more importance to looks than a woman does. That's how they are and there's nothing you can do to change that.

Men are biologically wired to seek women that are more physically attractive whereas women are wired to seek men that are more physically stronger i.e. more successful. Therefore, make sure that you always look attractive. Even if you're in a relationship with a guy, don't become lazy with your looks. Always look your best. It will make him pay more attention towards you.

Avoid fear of loss - As humans, we have a mechanism called the loss/gain mechanism. The concept behind is that: We have a tendency to retain what we already have than to go out and get something new even if it were for there.

You can see this principle in application every single day in your life. There are some women and men who choose to stick on to the same codependent relationship even if it was draining them of all their intellectual, emotional and financial resources. If you've ever been desperate to talk to a guy over the phone on that very day, it's a sign of fear of loss.

Fear of loss causes needy behavior. It makes you behave in ways that repulses a man from you. Have you been in a relationship that was going well and you brought up that commitment talk and the relationship ended too soon? If so, it's not his fault. The responsibility lies in you. You didn't control the fear of loss impulse in you which caused you to act scarce.

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