What do you do when your boyfriend is suddenly not answering your calls? There are many reasons for a man to suddenly grow distant in a relationship, and many ways to get him back.
Why Men Suddenly Grow Distant
When it comes down to it, there are only two types of men in the dating game -- the commitment-ready "real men," and the commitment-phobic "little boys." And unfortunately, on a good day, the little boys outnumber the real men 4 to 1!
And sometimes, we end up in relationships with these commitment-phobic "little boys." They make great boyfriends when everything is going well. But when the times get tough, such as when you start to talk about the future and settling down together, that's when they run away!
It's sad, but this happens to a LOT of women today. Their commitment-phobic boyfriends may promise them the world one day, and then be nowhere to be found the next!
So is it possible to get him back?
Let me answer with another question: Would you even WANT him back?
The fact remains -- it's not easy for a commitment-phobic man to suddenly "man up" and take responsibility for your relationship. It often takes quite a bit of time for a man to make the change.
But if you truly do love him, and you're willing to take a chance with him, then here's what you should do!
How A Man Falls In Love
Here's the secret: A man doesn't "decide" to fall in love. It just happens to him. It's a deep gut feeling. It's a tidal wave of emotions. He can't explain it -- he's simply head-over-heels for you!
And if your man suddenly grew cold and distant, it simply means he's not feeling the same "butterflies" with you anymore. There's no emotional reason for him to stay, so he chickens out and grows distant.
The idea, then, isn't to chase after him. Instead, it's to re-kindle the old fire that he felt for you. The idea is to make him feel even MORE attracted to you than before.
What attracted him to you in the first place? How can you enhance that? And how can you take your personality traits he didn't like -- and turn them into something he DOES like?
That's why, when your man suddenly grows cold and distant, it's always a good idea to pull away and focus on yourself for the meantime. It gives you an opportunity to grow yourself and become more smart, attractive, and personable. And it gives HIM an opportunity to miss you.
And if you play your cards right, he'll miss you enough to come back to you!
Ladies, THAT'S how to get a guy back. But there's more -- LOTS more!
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