No matter how beautiful you are, how much you keep your figure tight and how trendy your fashion statement is, there will always be a guy who is difficult to decode. You like him, that is a given. You have seen him every day at work, at the gym or in school but you just can't get his attention. So what should be your game plan? Following are 5 things to remember.
1. Timing Is Essential
Be at the right places at the right times. Since you know most of his whereabouts, it would not hurt for you to tweak your schedule a little bit so you can be where he is. Schedule lunch time along with his so you can potentially run into him at the pantry. Exposure will catch his attention.
2. Make Running Into Him Look Seamless
Being around a guy you like is sometimes not enough. If you've got a winner smile and your best perfume on, then make a way for him to see you face to face. Run into him (literally) and then smile and say "I'm so sorry! Hey, I see you here often. My name is...." Give a hand shake, a long smile and leave. Too early for a coffee date at this point, but at least he absolutely knows you exist.
3. Your First Date Should Be A Group Date
This won't be so difficult for you. You can easily make this possible as long as you play your cards right. What cards? Your common friends. Use them to your advantage. It is easier for him to ask you out if you have common friends who can help you out. Hang out with his crowd during Friday nights. Rock a right outfit and make sure it isn't too much. Just be really pretty, not too much make up, either tie your hair in a ponytail or leave it untied.
4. Now Is Your Chance For Small Talk
Small talk is conversation for conversation's sake. For it too last, you must know what the person you are talking to is interested in. Since you've been around each other for quite some time, you must know at least 2 or 3 details that will make you reel him in during a conversation. You must plan what you are going to say and how you are going to say it. Make an impression that will make him see you as witty, interesting, beautiful, and worth asking out.
5. Give Him Signs
Some guys just don't get it. So, you might put a little effort at making him know that he is cute or he is someone who you would want to go out with. Take note that you must not say these things bluntly. The best way is to give him hints. Not all guys want girls to make the first move, so stay on the safe side. Hints like "nice shirt" and "What?! You're single?!" is enough.
As much as you go under the table on researching about this guy, make sure that you are ready to be in a relationship because this might be where a successful date could be heading to. Know him very well and be a friend before anything else.
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