What is the #1 fear of most people out there? It's the fear of LOSING someone, more specifically, their significant other....and people SHOULD be afraid, because frankly, most people don't know how to make a relationship last. It's exactly why over 60% of relationships END rather than LAST. Now if you want to be able to make a man literally want you forever, I suggest that you pay close attention to the following tips:
Flirt With Him -Some couples, after a period of familiarity with one another, will tone down the flirtatious advances, because they think they are past that point. BUT, the fact is that you should never truly get past the flirtatious point, because it is a method to keep things alive even after a long period of time.
It's playful, fun, complimentary, and makes your man feel good, and remember if you want him to remain interested in you, you MUST make him feel good about himself; flirting with him will do just that. Not only this, but it encourages him to look at you in a fun and seductive manner; a feeling and outlook from his side, which would generally be lost if you don't nourish it from time to time.
Tackle Your Goals -Most of the things that are interesting in life, are interesting because they CHANGE. We notice the weather when it changes, not when it stays the same. We notice the moon when it becomes full, because it's not always that way. We watch sports or movies and expect changes in the game or plot.
Everything that we enjoy in life all boils down to one major thing: change. Thus, if you want to keep him utterly addicted to you, you should start tackling your goals and start accomplishing things outside of him. This change will make him always want to know MORE about you, because you are ensuring there is MORE to know.
Do Something Thrillingly Scary Together -Is there something that you've always thought was neat, but are too afraid to do it? Maybe it's skydiving or driving a motorcycle; but find something that both of you find thrilling, yet you are afraid, and do it together. Tackling one's fears together is a strong way to bond and keep the interest alive; as it is an interesting experience you can share and go through together.
Get Over Your Worst Insecurities - Is he always telling you that you look fine, but you don't seem to think so? If your worst insecurities is over your looks, find a way to get over it. If your worst insecurity is something else, find a way to get past it. Doing such will REMOVE that obstacle from your life and open you up to him in a whole new way that he didn't even think was possible.
Likewise, you should also work on his insecurities, so that he is not always pushing you away on the basis of a fear or doubt he has in himself or something else.
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