When you impress on your guy that you are an important cog in his wheel and without you his life will be dull and listless you can rest assured that he will never let you go. Here is how you can meet this objective of yours.
Be firm
You need to say when it is enough. Do not let him walk all over you and never compromise your self respect. This will show him that you need to be treated with more love and affection.
Let him realize that you are worth him
Take some time to review your relationship. Reflect upon your own behavior and honestly try to find out if you have been giving the love and affection he needs. If you truly do that and he knows that you are trying he will need and crave you as much as you do him.
Do not mollycoddle him
If your guy is not giving you the love and affection you need, don't compromise and stop if you have been treating him as the greatest guy alive, as you run the risk that he might start to get too spoilt and selfish and start taking you for granted.
Talk but don't get too emotional
There is actually some truth in the belief that men can't cope with too much emotion, so in a confrontation don't go in with lots of tears, sentimentalism or tantrums. Chances are that he will comply with your wishes if you talk to him in a mature and a calm manner and both of you can resolve to care for each others needs.
It is good to make mistakes
Nobody is perfect and that applies to you both. Don't make a fuss or get mad at him if he is unable to keep that dinner date with you or has forgotten something you had told him to do. Just have a talk with him about how you feel and let the matter go. This way he will need you more because you are so forgiving while the rest of the world is not.
Find out what turns him on
And give it to him. Not so difficult. Men are generally pretty easy to please. Have fun in bed, surprise him with something naughty and kinky. This will show him that you care for all his needs and he will reciprocate by doing the same.
Well, why not?
Maybe this is hard to do but if your guy is not giving you proper attention, there is nothing wrong in ignoring him for a while. Spend time with your friends by going out with them or do something exciting with them. He will realize that you can't be taken for granted and his respect and need for you will grow.
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