You've tried all the ways possible to make your man more interested but all of them have ended in sheer futile attempts. Your last resort is to make yourself unavailable and thus ensnare him. Some of these tips are very helpful.
Make yourself scarce
Let him find that you are suddenly no where to be seen. You even seem to have deserted the group with whom you used to hang out or the common areas you used to frequent together. Let him keep guessing about where you could be.
Let your whereabouts be a complete secret
Your friends circle should not even be aware of your whereabouts. He will try to find out through your close friends and even your family. The family too will need to be unapproachable, leaving him totally distressed.
Be non communicable
His next resort will be to call you on your cell. You know he's calling but make sure not to answer or that will be the end of your little game. He may try to get through to you through one of your friends but make sure you do not answer their call either,
Make an appearance after a reasonably long gap
Let him suddenly spot you at one of the friend's gatherings. He is sure to walk up to you and ask you where you have been. Tell him it was personal and you had to get out of town urgently; beyond that do not communicate more. He will not waste time in asking you out but decline politely.
Let him notice a change in you
May be there should be a significant change in your style of dressing for him to notice. Wear the colors you never used to wear earlier. Keep him guessing as to what the reason could be. Are you no longer interested in him will be his first thought.
Decline his offer to go out
He will wonder why you're not accepting to go out with him. Are you trying to avoid him or is there some one else on the scene? Tell him you're busy and leave him. Yet let him see that you are into other activities that involve another set of friends than before.
Is there someone special?
Let him guess that there must be someone special now on the scene and that is why you're not available for him these days. Once he notices how unavailable you are for him, he will realize his mistake and will show his interest hereafter. Take care not to relent too easily or you will give yourself away.
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