Sunday, October 24, 2010

What's The Most Annoying Thing Women Do Around Men Which Drives Them Nuts? It's Not What You Think!

I spy, with my little eye....something that almost every woman out there does, that drives men absolutely nuts! Think you know what it is? Chances are; this will surprise you....

How Much Do You Expect From Your Man?

Not sure where I am going with this? Well, don't worry, because I am going to take you by the hand and walk you through a man's mind, and show you the most annoying thing that women do around men; which of course; men hate...

In a nutshell, it has to do with your expectations. You see, most women expect TOO MUCH from the man she is with or from a man she is interested in. But let's do a little test here first; see if you can identify with any of the following:

? Are you looking for the love of your life, and you want him to sweep you off your feet and take out of the hell hole you are in now?

? Do you feel lonely and depressed when you don't have him around, and can't seem to do anything with yourself?

? Do you think about him all the time, and can't really get anything else done unless he is there encouraging you?

? Do you get really upset if a man doesn't call you back, even if you never told him you wanted him to?

? Do you feel anxious and don't know what to do with your-self when he isn't around, and wait impatiently for him to come back?

? Do you always talk to him about your problems and try to get him to fix things for you?

? Is he the only way for your dreams to come true, and without him, you are "not complete"?

You see, what most women end up doing, is they end up expecting their man to be EVERYTHING. Literally. You want him to be your friend, your lover, your problem solver, your cuddle buddy, your listener, your fun time, and even your enemy!

Men Hate It When A Woman Puts Too Many Expectations On Him

When you expect too much from a man, he ends up feeling trapped, and his natural reaction will be to withdraw. Men can't help it....because they already have to handle themselves, but on top of it feel as though you are trying to get them to be like a father to you.

There comes a certain point where a man will start expecting you to take responsibility for your life, and start trying to give yourself what you want, instead of always relying on a man to come in and save the day for every single thing.

He doesn't want to always have to hear about your problems and how you don't make any effort to fix them. He doesn't want you to only have the EXACT SAME dreams he does....in fact, he wants you to have your OWN dreams, and a life OUTSIDE of him.

He wants you to be an individual, someone who is confident on her own. That's what he's looking for, but if you are always expecting too much of him or want him to be your entire world, planet, or universe even....well, you can expect him to leave you and move on.



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