In a modern world that believes in equality among the sexes, a woman's pursuit of a man is now an acceptable thing. But some reserved people might disagree. They say that a woman should always be the one pursued and not the other way around. Should you believe them or should you go and run after what you want?
Men are often turned off by aggressive women.
Majority of men might run in the opposite direction if you show him that you're running after him. They are just the traditional bunch who believe in the lady in every woman and so she should be treated with respect and be the one who is pursued.
You give up the challenge once you pursue him.
Men like being challenged and once you start thinking that you can't wait much longer, he'll already see you as an easy target - and men don't want to have easy targets. They'd rather have a prize that they fought so hard for rather than have something that was served to them on a silver platter.
You'd look nothing but desperate.
Men want to take charge of things and if you switch the roles, they might just flinch. Most of them may look at women who pursue men as highly desperate. To them, ladies should be ladies and they should lie in wait for their knight in shining armor to arrive.
He wants to be tagged as a winner.
A decent man would want to brag about the fact that he spent months in pursuing a certain woman and he won over a pack of other admirers. They just love the feeling of being a winner and if that is taken away from them, there's a possibility that the relationship won't be as sweet.
You'll look cheap.
Anything that was taken too easily won't be valued as much. So if you readily chase your man and give yourself to him, he might get attracted at first but it won't be a lasting thing. In the long run, he might see how cheap you seemed when you didn't give him the chance to be the one to chase you.
You've taken the thrill from him.
Men are natural-born predators. They want to look for their mate and be the one to hunt for her. And so if you're an easy prey or if the prey suddenly becomes the predator (heck that doesn't happen in the natural world!), then he won't feel the excitement of the chase anymore and that's just disappointing for him.
A handful of men...
...might find aggressive women to be attractive but remember to assess a guy before you actually start running after him. A few men might even play hard to get and so chasing him is just the thing to do!
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