There are many signs that can indicate whether or not a man wants to see you again. Here's some of the things a guy might do on a first date that can be your clues as to whether or not he's desiring a second one.
He's Nervous as the Date Ends
You might have noticed that he was a ball of nerves when he walked you to your door or said goodbye to you after your first date.
If a man is nervous when he says goodbye and fidgets with his hands or keys, it's because he's trying to think of the right words to say and whether or not to kiss you goodnight. He's mostly just hoping that he doesn't screw anything up. A guy that cares enough to be nervous is very likely to want to see you again in the near future.
He Gives You a Kiss Full of Passion
If he did end up being brave enough to kiss you after that first date, then remember the kiss itself because that can tell you a whole lot.
If the kiss was full of desire and passion, it' likely that you'll be hearing from him again soon. A guy who doesn't want another date with you will probably not want to kiss you in this passionate way.
He Touched You Often Throughout the Date
Did he take every single possibly opportunity that he could to touch you? This is one of the trademarks of a guy who has a serious crush. It's important to note, however, what kind of touches they actually were. If they were light and respectful touches, then that's a good sign. On the other hand, if he was presumptuous and less than a gentleman when he initiated physical contact, this points towards a lack of respect for you. The kind of guy who inappropriately touches you too soon will not be worth keeping around for another date.
You Both Laughed and Talked a Lot
If both of you laughed a lot and enjoyed your time together, chances are he'll want to repeat it and see you again.
The only thing that could discourage him from wanting another date with you is if you talked too much and didn't show enough interest in him and the things he had to say.
He Behaved Like a True Gentleman
If your guy was respectful and didn't try to force physical contact or get fresh with you right away on the first date, that's one indication he might be a keeper.
A man that wants to win you over and prove that he's going to be worth your time again will be very careful not to offend you or make you feel uncomfortable. A guy's actions always mean more than what he says; a stand-up guy who wants to see you again (and doesn't have the wrong intentions) will behave with class.
Ultimately, Listen to Your Gut Feeling
Most of the time, women already know if a man wants to see them again or not. It's simply a matter of listening to our instincts. If you have a gut feeling that is giving you strong indication one way or the other, listen to it.
He Didn't Seem Rushed Towards the End of The Date
If a guy seems as though he's late for something and is in a hurry as your first date is coming to an end, that's not a good sign.
A man who is truly enjoying your company and wants to see you again will not act as though he's rushing to get away from you. He'll act like he wants to spend hours talking even if it's late and act as though he doesn't even have to get up for work the next day. Even if you don't receive feedback quite this good, you get the idea. If he wants to see you again, he'll enjoy each second with you the first time.
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