You can't sleep at night because you are full of doubts and fears regarding your man. You wonder if he is cheating on you behind your back and you have this uneasy feeling that all is not hunky dory! Well, a woman's intuition cannot be far wrong. However you can look for these signs that will tell you if he is two timing you.
He will try to put you off his scent by being extra attentive
Suddenly you will find that he is being extra loving and attentive towards you, but does not seem to be all "there". He cannot disguise the fact that he is restless and his mind seems to be elsewhere! This could be because he is having an affair and trying to cover it up by his efforts to be attentive and loving towards you.
He will be reluctant to let you read his messages
If he is cheating on you, he is obviously going to be in touch with his lover either on phone or email etc. All you have to do is see if he is ready to hand you his phone or read his mail. If he acts secretive and looks reluctant to comply with your wishes, it could mean that he has something to hide.
Does his paycheck prove that he has been working overtime
If his paycheck does not show that he has earned extra money, then you can wonder if he has really been working overtime! Check and see if he continuously pleads extra work to stay out late at night. Check at the office and find out for yourself!
Is he always irritated and angry at home?
If he is having an affair with some one else, he will not be able to really handle the deceit well. He will be irritable, reluctant to spend time with the family, ridden with guilt and also have temper tantrums at home.
He will never look you in the eye when he's talking to you
Why don't you try talking frankly to him about the doubts that have crept into your mind. If he is innocent, he will be anxious to soothe you and drive your fears away. On the other hand if he is guilty, he will find it difficult to lie to you and look you in the eye!
Go through his personal things
If you really suspect him of cheating on you, you can go through his personal things to see if there are any clues that might give him away. Check his pockets and his drawers - you will be surprised at what you may find! However, if you don't like checking behind his back - it is better to confront him!
He seems to be going out of town on business a lot
If your man has been making a lot of trips out of town lately, then you might have cause to worry, especially if you find he has been drifting away from you. If he does not show any interest in having sex with you it could mean that he has found someone else.
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