It is the most demeaning thing to see your man flirting with other girls when you're with him. It almost feels as though you mean nothing to him. If you're not sure how to react to this then follow some of the suggestions below.
You cannot turn a blind eye to this
You have to be stern with your man. While you cannot turn a blind eye you have to firmly tell him that you are with him and if this is how he is going to behave then he should not have asked you out. Be firm and tell him you do not like this.
Talk it out if necessary
May be you could talk things out with him if this pattern continues every time. Directly confront him and question him. Are you lacking in any way or are there any shortcomings in you? In all likeliness he will have nothing to say.
Do not show him that you are jealous
He might interpret your intolerance of his flirting as jealousy. Make it clear to him that it does not matter to you who he flirts with provided you are not with him and not his date either. But if he has asked you out then you expect his complete attention.
Your license to flirt
If your man does not seem to bother then use your license to flirt with his friends or others. Make him jealous and realize what it feels like to be flirting with others in his presence. Much as it may not be in you to flirt, you have to do it to teach him a lesson.
Walk out on him
If none of the above works then the best thing for you to do is walk out on him the next time he flirts. There should be no need for you to call his attention to this; instead leave him gasping with wonder and amazement that you could actually walk out.
Have you become slack
May be it's time to wake up and take stock of your looks and figure. Have you become slack over the period and allowed yourself to comfortably put on weight? Has your face too been neglected over the period? Wake up and turn things around.
Don't unduly admonish him
If his flirtation is very superficial and light then just learn to ignore the whole thing instead of making too much of it and unduly admonishing him. If you make too much of a passing flirtation then he might think that you don't trust him.
This article is brought to you by Relationships Advice Blog.
No comments:
Post a Comment