Majority of married couples, if not all, experience boredom at one point in their relationship. Most marriage counselors would advise these people to do something exciting or adventurous in order to get out of this rut that they go into. If you're a wife who is close to feeling desperate, here's how you get to impress your husband with many surprises:
Change is always possible.
And you should let your husband feel this. Since it gets a little boring as the relationship goes on, let this man know that you're always open for any change. Don't get too sluggish or this man would begin thinking that there's nothing more to expect from you.
Be in your most fit body.
Have you ever wondered where your whistle bait figure went? Has your husband been seeing nothing but shapeless clothes on you recently? Then why don't you go ahead and surprise him by dressing up for dinner one time? His jaw would surely drop once he sees that you're wearing the red dress that he bought for you months ago!
Let the nanny do her job.
It's time to relax and see a movie the way you used to when you were still dating out. Spend more time with your husband. If the kids become a reason for you to stay at home all the time, then why not hire a nanny at least once each week? This one day every week should give you the time to be with your husband - as a wife and not just the mother of his children!
Go on a holiday as honeymooners.
So what's stopping you from booking a weekend on a special getaway? This is a major surprise that would totally arouse romantic moods in both of you. Don't think about the expense, just think about the fun and romance that you'll get to experience with your husband.
Show him the fiery you.
If he's used to nothing but him being on top during lovemaking, then why not do something that he would never expect? Are you up to some Kama Sutra lessons? The best application would be inside your bedroom!
Give him something that he's long been asking for.
Has he been ogling over this guitar that he saw in a nearby mall? Then what the heck, go ahead and buy it! If there's extra money, then don't even think of how to re-earn that money! Just imagine how happy he'd be once he places his hands on this special string instrument!
Give him your full trust by letting him go.
You may have been selfish with this man before so it's time to let him go when he asks for your permission to go out with his friends. Remember that he had these friends before you even got into his life so there's no point in making him choose between you and them! Surprise him by allowing him to go out with them. He'll surely be thanking you for this gesture.
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