How to Deal With Breaking Up With Your Girlfriend If You Want Her Back - 3 Mistakes to Avoid

It's really a true statement to say that how you deal with breaking up with your girlfriend will have a huge impact on whether or not you and her wind up getting back together or you wind up staying broken up. There are common mistakes that guys make in this kind of a situation that you really want to avoid at all costs if you can and knowing what those mistakes are and being diligent about actually avoiding making them is key if you want to end up reconciling with her.

What are those three mistakes?

1. Letting yourself panic about the break up.

You may not want to admit to your buddies that you are feeling a little bit of panic about the break up, but it is a natural first reaction. You are going to think about the worst case scenario and the possibility that you might not be able to win her back. However, you have to control that inclination to panic about the break up as much as possible. No one makes good decisions about what to do when they are in that frame of mind.

2. Allowing other people to tell you what you need to do.

When it comes to break ups, it seems like just about everyone you know is going to tell you what you need to do. You'll have those friends that tell you that you need to just forget about her, that she isn't really worth it. You'll have those friends who will tell you that you need to suck up to your ex girlfriend because that's the real trick to being able to get her back. However, you want to be careful about allowing people to tell you what you need to do because in all reality, they are not you. They don't have to live with the reality of the break up like you do.

3. Thinking that your ex girlfriend is the only possible woman you can be happy with.

When you feel like your ex girlfriend is the only woman that you can find happiness with, you are going to feel desperate to win her back. Of course, you should already know that desperation doesn't really tend to be the best state of being for making a good impression on an ex girlfriend. Realize that as good as she might be, there is the possibility that another woman might be just as good to be with.

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