How To Use Pick Up Lines Effectively

Pick up lines are great conversation starters if used correctly can be very effective. However, if the wrong technique or words are used, it could be a source of great embarrassment. This is especially true if the user just use any ready made canned pick up lines he found on the internet or are taught by some other sources to deliver them.

That may be the reason why some people may not like the idea of using pick up lines on women or may have tried the wrong ones and so think that pick up lines do not work. This is simply not true because how can you start any conversation without conversational openers?

There are perhaps millions of guys who start conversations everyday with women for the first time all over the world. So pick up lines do work provided that you deliver them in the right context and manner to be effective.

Most of the times, the pick up lines that don't work are the ones used too frequently or have sexual innuendos. So the best way is to compose your own lines.

In this article I will be introducing you some of my favorite lines that worked very well for me. However, you must be aware that by putting up this article in a public domain, the lines I use here may one day be again overused and thus loses its effectiveness as girls are being hit time and again by men using the same lines.

My favorite one is just say "Hi". Yes, that is all. Keep it short and simple. You may think that is very naive because how can a simple hi be a good pick up line?

Well, here is the surprise. A poll was taken in which thousands of women were asked what they think is the best pick up line of all time and an overwhelming majority of them said it is the simple hi.

Furthermore, with a simple hi, you will never make the mistake of using a corny or cheesy pick up line and you will also come across as a friendly and sincere guy.

Another one of my favorite line is "There is a speck stuck in your hair". This can be used even if there is nothing there. The idea is to solicit a response. Think about it, which girl will not ask you back "where is it?" so she can flick it off. Even then, you can say that it is still there and proceed to flick it off from her hair. By doing that, some innocuous touching and interaction is established. From then on, she will say thank you to you and now is your moment to introduce yourself.

If you are the confident type and want to start a conversation without any fuss, then why not say "I noticed you earlier and wondered if you are friendly?" This is a hitting below the belt challenge to her because which girl will tell you that they are unfriendly unless you have just approached a well, nasty woman?

So most of the time, they will tell you that they are friendly and thus if they are friendly, they have no excuse not to continue the conversation with you right? Try them out and you will be convinced that good pick up lines definitely do work very effectively indeed when it comes to picking up girls.

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