You are flummoxed that your guy who till a few weeks back was unable to resist calling you time and time again has suddenly gone cold and stopped calling you. You wonder what went wrong. Whether it was you that ticked him off or is there something more than meets the eye. Here are a few possible reasons.
Go back in time
Well, to look for answers you will have to introspect and go back a little and analyze all that transpired between the two of you. Did you fight or was there a huge argument. If there was a fight why didn't you end the fight by coming to a resolution? A little bit of give and take would have solved the issue. To keep the relationship strong you need to be civil even when you disagree.
Third person
To paraphrase what princess Diana said in that famous interview she gave on television "There were three persons in the marriage". Maybe your guy was two timing you and was also seeing someone else. It could also be that the two of you never had such strong bonding that it broke so easily.
Maybe you don't excite him anymore
After the initial excitement the relationship has gone stale. Neither you nor he tried to bring the zing back. If he was looking for excitement and you were looking for stability then maybe both were pursuing different agendas. To keep a man interested you have to excite him continuously. He must feel wanted and desired as it satisfies and massages his ego.
Maybe he is making a point
He feels that you don't really value him as much as he wants you to. Therefore he is taking a break so that you miss him and realize his true worth. If the guy is really decent do not waste time thinking, go and get him back in your life.
He takes you for granted
Since you take care of all his whims and fancies he has begun to treat you like a doormat. Remember a relationship is a deal and if you let him walk all over you then you have only yourself to blame. Learn a lesson from this and do not repeat it in this or any other relationship that you may have in the future.
You were in a hurry
Your constant pestering for a commitment of marriage drove him away. Men take time to settle down and you need to give him that. If you came across as a desperate woman it is no surprise that he deserted you. Get him back in your life and tell him that you are ready to wait till he is confident.
He wants to see if you miss him
You may have been very overbearing and may have begun to take him for granted. In the process you did not take into consideration his feelings and his self esteem. He is so hurt that he wants to stay away so that you realize your mistake and improve.
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