Monday, September 20, 2010

Relationship Matters

Every relationship has a role in our life. It can bring a good effect or it can bring a bad effect. It is our responsibility to choose the right one for us.

Relationship matters depend on these things:

1. Working on the relationship. A relationship is not an event, it is a process, and once it is established, it needs to be maintained. Selfishness and ego can ruin the relationship badly if we can not control it.

2. Communication. Communicate clearly about your feelings and your thoughts about things that happening in your relationship. Tell your partner what you like and what you do not like. Your partner have to do it to you as well. Honesty and open communication is the key in this area.

3. Spending time. We can be intimate and close to our partner if we are spending time together. Quality of time is better than quantity of time. It is time for us to know more about our couple.

4. Understanding. Relationships can withstand the challenges with understanding from both sides. Respecting each other ways of thinking and feelings. This is also mean that we have to learn to accept each other differences. We need to understand that every person is unique and differences are inevitable. We can not make other people change as we want them to be, even if it is for a better good but we can not make them as our robot as they have their own style and characteristic.

Abuse relationship will not bring enjoyable relationship, it will only bring disappointment and insecurity.



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