Wednesday, September 8, 2010

I Am Overly Available to My Man! Does This Mean He Will Grow Bored of Me Real Soon?

Are you one of the women who are now just reminiscing the happy moments that you've had with the man in your life? Has your man either walked away from you or you're just waiting for the moment for him to say goodbye? This only means one thing - he could be dying of boredom. Given this situation, look back, were you always hovering over this man?

Call him often and he's out running.
Try checking on him every hour by the hour and you will have a man who'll wish for a different girlfriend soon! It's alright to call him once each day but to go overboard by calling him every now and then is just too much for any man to bear.

Is it a hundred percent YES all the time?
Look back on all those times that he's asked you out on a date. Did you always say yes? Or were there moments when you said that you can't go with him because you said yes to your girl friends first? Be there all the time and he'll definitely be bored.

A little time for yourself.
It really doesn't matter what you call it - YOU time or girls' night out - the secret here is to let him feel that you have other things that you need to do. Let him realize that he isn't the focal point of your universe.

Everything's based on routine.
Sometimes, being available could also mean doing the exact same things, at the exact same order all the time. When everything on your relationship is already based on routine, then this man has nothing more to be surprised about.

The absence of conquest.
If you give everything to your man - your time and yourself - then this automatically means that there's nothing left to conquer. Men love a good chase and you mustn't deprive him of that sweet, victorious feeling.

You begin to be behave like a creepy stalker.
Imagine appearing wherever he goes! Any man would be freaked out by such a behavior. If you appear too eager or too desperate, then consider your relationship dead.

Don't wait for him all the time.
When he comes home from the office, does he expect that you'd be right at the doorstep to greet him? That's what dogs do, honey, and you are too good to be doing a task meant for mutts. Do something to while away the time when waiting for your man. Don't just sit in one corner, waiting for him to come back from the office!



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