Are you frustrated and angry at your man because of his behavior? Has he been acting childish and stubborn of late? There could be many reasons for this and it is up to you to try and find out why he is behaving in this manner and is being so difficult. Here are some tips that will help you deal with the problem in a mature manner.
Don't push your point too much
If you find that he is being difficult to handle - just stop pushing too hard. If he finds that you are adamant to have your way, he will turn even more stubborn and try to be the winner here. No man wants to be the loser where a "tiff" with a woman is concerned, so lay off!
Try to figure out why
Maybe it is time to have a reality check and ask yourself why he is behaving in a particular manner. Look back and be honest with yourself. If you feel that you are guilty in some way and have contributed towards his difficult manner, then it is time to made amends and see if your apology makes all the difference to his behavior!
Ignore his tantrums
If he is going to behave like a spoilt child then he has to be treated as one! Ignore the tantrums and leave him alone when he is being difficult to handle. This may make him see that he is behaving in an immature manner and he might stop. Let him know that you think that he is being silly.
Have a serious talk with him
If you feel that he is being stupid and silly in acting stubborn and difficult then the best thing for you to do is to talk to him and let him know that you don't appreciate his behavior. This will also give him a chance to open up and let you know as to why he is being difficult.
Tell him that you can only take so much!
If nothing you do works and he continues to behave in a manner that is difficult and irresponsible, then you should give him an ultimatum. Let him know that his behavior is spoiling things between you and that you can only take so much. Threaten to walk out if he does not stop.
Be sweet, cajoling and irresistible
Most times a man who is being difficult just wants your attention - so give it to him! Don't be stingy with your kisses, hugs and loving. If you are tender, cajoling and sweet, he will be thrilled and feel flattered and loved. He will be too happy to play any more games with you.
Leave him alone with his moods
Sometimes when a man is feeling confused and trapped in a relationship for some reason or the other, he may react by being difficult and stubborn. This is the time to let sleeping dogs lie and don't fan the flames of discontent.
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