I Want Her Back But She's Giving Me Mixed Signals

Getting and trying to interpret mixed signals from a woman is probably one of the hardest things that a man can do. Even guys that have been living with a woman for years will still sometimes have a lot of difficulty when that woman seems to be giving them mixed signals. If you feel like your ex girlfriend is the one that happens to be giving you those mixed signals... it can be extremely frustrating if you are trying to interpret what she means and if you really do have a chance of getting her back. Let's try to make that a little bit easier to deal with.

ARE YOU SEEING WHAT YOU WANT TO SEE OR ARE YOU SEEING REALITY?

The first thing that you need to think about if you feel like your ex girlfriend is giving you mixed signals is to try and figure out whether or not you are just seeing what you want to see or if you are seeing what is really going on. What I mean by that is, do you think she is giving you mixed signals because you want to believe that she wants you back or is it because they are REALLY there?

The mind is funny and it can easily see what it wants to see. So, if you really want your ex girlfriend back, it can be easy to take things that don't really mean a thing and give it meaning. Sometimes guys will talk about mixed signals from their ex girlfriend when the reality is that the signal is really clear... she doesn't want a thing to do with them and they just don't want to see that reality.

BE PATIENT AND DON'T REACT TOO QUICKLY -

If you really are getting mixed signals from your ex girlfriend, you want to try and be patient and don't react too quickly. This might just be a situation where she isn't really sure on what she wants and if you react too quickly and your reaction happens to be the wrong one - you could end up pushing her away when you could have had her back if you were a little more patient and waited things out a bit.

The other thing that you want to do is to try and work on making your ex girlfriend feel more attraction towards you. That way, if she needs a little pushing, the attraction will make her lean towards the idea of getting back together with you and not in moving on without you.

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