I have talked about how to take any woman you want from the approach to your bedroom and into your life, sexually and emotionally using my world famous 7 point or step system. The next obvious question is once you have seduced a woman sexually, how do you keep her for life?
To do this, we must play 4 roles.
1. The Lover
2. The Friend
3. The Father Figure
4. The Partner
Let's break down each one in simplistic detail so that you can understand what it means.
The lover
1. You need to continue spinning the wheels of attraction for a woman, even after you've seduced her, by continuing to exhibit dominance, leadership and self-confidence. For example, you need to continue demonstrating that you are the leader of men by not appearing affected or threatened by other men if they approach and start to talk to your partner at a social event.
If you do, then even though you may have seduced her, your partner will start to lose attraction for you. So, you need to carry on the process that got her attracted to you in the first place, once you have started to date her or gotten serious with her and avoid being caught in the trap of becoming end result satisfied or "wussified" as we say.
The Friend
2. As we know, attraction without a connection is the ingredient for a sexual relationship. If that is what you want and if this is your cup of tea, then don't build a genuine connection with a woman. On the other hand, we both know from the verbal accounts of many couples that the reason they are still together is that, not only do they feel passion for one another but they are each others best friends. So therefore, you need to act as a friend to your partner, as well and make her feel a strong deep emotional and spiritual connection with you. How?
Listen to her
Care for her
nurture her
help her
guide her
be there for her
understand her, etc
The Father Figure
3. In addition to playing the sexually dominant lover and the "Humanistic, best friend" type of character, we need to play a 3rd character-the mature, dominant "Daddy" or "Father figure". It's true what they say. Women often look for bits and pieces of a "dominant daddy" in their partners. In other words, someone who is not only dominant but more educated, more experienced, can teach them things, will punish/reward them for their behaviour (good/bad), will make them aspire to become the best they can be, etc In other words, a woman needs to see "value" in being with us which is growth and evolution of her mind, body and spirit.
The Partner
4. Many times, your partner and you will have different value systems, goals, dreams, etc This can take you in two opposite directions and ultimately split you both apart. For instance, you may want to start your own restaurant, however your woman may want to start her own art business because she is a great painter. What you can do to ensure that you don't lose her to distance and time apart is to make her an integral part of your goals and allow her to do the same for you.
In this example, you can get her to do some paintings for your restaurant and in return you can find a position of involvement in her goals and aspirations. She will not only immensely respect you, but this will strengthen the bond you both have and keep you both together for the long-term.
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