I'm sure a lot of the guys in the dating community came here because of a bad breakup. I know I did. Let's explore the women that cause all these bad breakups. I bet 9 out 10 times, this girl is a crazy girl. More likely than not, she has a personality disorder. More specifically a cluster B disorder. There are 4 types: anti-social, borderline, narcissistic, and histrionic. Now since we are talking about women, we can leave out anti-social and narcissistic disorders since men mostly comprise these groups. In fact, I'm sure many players have traits of the narcissist.
That leaves us with the borderline and histrionic disorders. These disorders are far more common in women, and so they are the crazy bitches I am talking about.
The histrionic female. Now she isn't exactly a crazy girl, but she does have the capacity to do a great deal of emotional harm. She is the freak, the attention whore, the drama queen. She will always seek attention from men, and in fact will rarely have female friends. Her "friends" will generally be male admirers. Usually these women are very attractive, though I have seen disgustingly obese histrionic women. You can thank chicken wings and chocolate ice cream. This is the girl that breaks the hearts of the nice guys. For a player, she is child's play. Histrionics are gullible and easily influenced, making them easy prey. The trick is to never show them too much attention. Once you do, she will hold you in contempt and place you in her harem of weakling worshipers.
Histrionics come from a reasonably pleasant background. She is basically a spoiled brat who was rarely if ever criticized or punished as a child. This is combined with a lack of attention from one or both of her parents. Her childhood environment creates a burning desire for approval, and she must be the center of attention at all times. She tends to have good social skills and may even seem to be genuinely caring. Do not be fooled, like all cluster b types, she is incapable of empathy. She feels no remorse for the crushed emotions of the men who have fallen in love with her.
The borderline female. She is truly the crazy gurk and far more dangerous than the histrionic. In fact, she can even harm a player if he is not careful. These terribly damaged creatures are masters of the bait and switch. In the beginning, she appears as the perfect woman. She is the sweetest, most feminine girl you ever met. In time, she shows her true self, a vile beast. Once she unveils her mask, you find a sad woman who finds pleasure in causing pain in the men in her life. Unlike the histrionic female who just doesn't care, the borderline female enjoys it and relishes in her cruelty.
A borderline sees everything in black and white. You are either the most wonderful man in the world or evil incarnate. She has the ability to divide people around her, turning people against you. A childhood of terrible physical and or sexual abuse is shared by borderline women. Her parents had no love for her, even to the point of abandonment. This fuels an intense fear of abandonment in the borderline. Many borderlines have no impulse control and engage in casual sex, binge eating, drug use, excessive drinking, and reckless driving. They have a death wish, and many attempt suicide with scars on their arms as proof. Others find sociopath boyfriends/husbands to take care of that wish, if the brutes fail, the borderlines are happy to send them away to prison. She is the kind that would find intense pleasure in 2 men fighting to the death over her.
Her most obvious trait is her anger. She contains a virulent anger within her. In fact, this is the best way to spot a borderline. Make a vanilla joke about her, something light and not hurtful. If she reacts with rage, then you have a very good sign. If she also happens to be the perfect girl, well genius, you have a borderline
It is best you avoid this creature, she will bring you nothing but grief. In my own experience, I did not find out what she was until it was too late. The terrible abuse she suffered, the rape when she was 18 were big warning flags, but I was not told about this until I was emotionally invested in her. She even tried to manipulate me into killing her ex-husband, yes what a dangerous creature. This is the kind of woman that will get you killed. I had a head full of jet black hair, after I broke up with her for the last time, gray hairs sprouted all over the sides of my head. I pride myself in being a strong man with a will of iron. My addiction to her was stronger than any drug I consumed. I don't drink much, I tried other drugs and never did them again. No I never got addicted to a chemical drug, but I was addicted to her. The powerful emotions that occur when you're with a borderline woman imprison you with ferocity. It took me a long time to heal the damage.
The law of attraction is a powerful force. After the last breakup, I attracted other borderline women into my life. In fact, the next girl I went out with was another borderline. Fortunately, that did not last long. 3 of my personal training clients were borderline females. Once I realized what the law of attraction was, I figured out what was happening. I had still wanted my ex and I was attracting women like her into my life. Once I wanted nothing to do with her, it stopped. Those clients stopped training with me. In fact, my ex tried to contact me again through my business website. When she found out how disgusted I was with her, it ended. The game was over.
It is best to avoid these women completely.
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