Is He Interested In Dating Me?

Do you have a sneaky suspicion that he likes you even though he has not said anything? You see the way he acts around you or sometimes looks at you... and you feel that there may be something going on with him but you are just not sure? You wonder if he likes you or if it's your imagination that is playing tricks with you. How can you tell if he is interested in dating you?

i. He hangs around you. A man who is interested in you will want to be around you as much as he can. Because he likes you then he is happy being around you but his ego will make him appear distant so that if you do reject him then the rejection is not devastating.

ii. He seems uncomfortable around you. A man who is interested in dating you will not be as articulate as you would hope. His interest in you makes him self-conscious and unsure of himself which can come across as a lack of connection. You seem to be the one having to ask questions and to sometimes wonder if he doesn't really want to talk to you. He wants to talk but is afraid of saying the wrong thing or creating the wrong impression with you.

iii. He seems to have trouble asking you out. A man who is interested in dating you is really afraid of your rejection so he will tend to ask you out indirectly so that he can save face if you say no. He will be fishing to know if you want to go out with him so he will suggest places he would want to go... and wait to see if you will express an interest in going there with him.

iv. He will be extremely helpful to you only. A man who is interested in dating you will want to break the ice with you by doing things for you or offering his presence and resources to you. Yet he is not as helpful and giving of himself to other people. If he is helpful and involved with everyone else then you will have to look and see if he makes extra efforts where you are concerned.

A man who wants to date you will do things that ensure that he breaks the ice with you and gets to spend time with you. His nervousness and vested interest in you may make his conversation erratic and awkward.