Do you find yourself noticing that she's not as interested in you as she used to be? Are you concerned that she may replace you with someone else? If you have asked yourself these or other related questions, you may be wondering what happened and what you can do about it. The following are the three main reasons that women lose interest in their men, and if you notice any of these in your relationship, then I will also let you know what you can do to get her focus back on you once more.
Bored, Bored, Bored, Bored
Like anything else that's new, a relationship at the beginning is exciting and fresh. She thinks about you all the time whether or not you are together. She's always on you (in a good way) and the exploring is not yet complete. Often, relationships fall into the trap of routine. If you are scheduling activities like movie night or sex, or anything else like this, you will likely appear boring to her and you need to introduce some spontaneity to keep her eyes on you.
Grooming Slips
Often when people are comfortable with someone that they are with, they tend to let themselves go somewhat. If you're not sure what this means, think about if you've put on a few pounds or your hair is becoming unkempt or maybe your dressing style has fallen off. These things can lead to her losing interest in you and considering looking elsewhere. Upkeep on yourself is important, and if you get back in the grooming and health habits that you were into to attract her, chances are you will re-attract her by getting back on track.
Unsolved Conflicts
No matter what the situation, if you and your lady have some issue that has not been closed, this can do significant damage to the relationship and her interest in you is sure to fade. If you had a fight or some other issue has arisen that hasn't been resolved, then she is going to show outward signs of frustration. She may even start ignoring you. If there is a matter that hasn't been put to rest, then talk to her about anything that may be concerning her, and reach some resolution about any open issues. This will give closure to whatever the situation is, and you will be back foremost in her mind. If you would like more advice on this or other topics on dating, just ask me. I will be happy to help you out.
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