Has your relationship been unhappy for a while and you have been hoping that things would get better but suddenly something has shifted. You are not sure what but you have the feeling that he may be about to dump you. You are afraid that he has reached the end of his rope... and that he is going to dump you? What are the signs that he is going to dump you?
i. He is no longer stressed by your bad relationship. A signs that he is going to dump you is his new found joy and optimism. He has stopped stressing and trying to solve your relationship problems. Before this you could tell that he was worried about the relationship or he was angry with you but now he is nice and amicable like all the bad in the relationship is no longer a problem. Do not rejoice as this could mean that he has made up his mind that the relationship is not worth worrying about anymore... and with time he is simply going to dump you.
ii. He is happy again. Another sign that he is going to dump is that he is smiling and whistling again... like he did when you were first in love. He is day dreaming, smiling secretly to himself and overflowing with a joy that you cannot understand. Beware of his new found happiness as you know it has nothing to do with you... and he may prefer it to you and dump you for it.
iii. His friends are not as chummy as they once were. A man's close friends will often know the health and happiness of his relationship so watch them and the way they treat you. When they know that you are on your way out (he is dumping you) then they lose interest in you and there is a change in how they relate with you that you can detect if you are watchful.
iv. He is a scarce resource. A man who has lost interest in you will be unavailable to you. His time, his emotions, his resources etc. will just not be available to you. He will want to spend himself with people and in activities that he likes... and he no longer likes you! If he seems to be avoiding you; spends all his time away from you; does not want to do anything for or with you; and shares himself with others... then he is going to dump you.
A man who is going to dump you starts by dumping you in his emotions. He disconnects from you emotionally before disconnecting totally from you... and dumping you.
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