Friday, October 12, 2012

How to Find Love: Forming a Plan

In a world of computers, online dating, texting and smartphones, it may seem a bit strange to begin this discussion with a metaphysical concept. It is called the Law of Attraction. To those who believe in a universe filled with energy, this law is foremost in getting what you want. All you need to do is to set the law in motion and it works for you on an unseen, unconscious level.

You are probably wondering how to do this. The first step is to know that the universe is very specific. You will get exactly what you ask for. But be careful what you ask for. Here is a true story. One woman sat down and wrote down exactly the qualities she wanted in a man. She wanted him to be handsome, tall, kind, generous, financially secure with a good sense of humour. She started dating several men and in a short time met the man who had all the qualities she was looking for. After a few months they decided to get married. It was to be a marriage made in heaven. Lo and behold she came back after two years and said she had gotten a divorce. When asked what happened, she replied, he didn't love me. So we asked her, when she wrote the qualities she was looking for in a man did she state that she wanted him to love her. Her answer was I forgot to put that down. Always remember, the law of attraction will give you exactly what you ask for but you must be very, very specific.

This should be your starting point. Take pen and paper and write down "exactly" what qualities you are looking for in your partner. Let it sit for a week or so and come back and review and add or delete items on your list. Let it be for another week or so, come back and do the same thing. If you keep your lists, you will see that your subconscious mind has been doing its homework, giving you the insights you need to perfect your needs.

While this is going on you keep an open mind. Be aware of persons who might be the right fit for you. If someone interests you, start dating them. What will happen is that your subconscious mind will match that person with your list. A little voice inside you will tell you if he/she is the right one. "Feel" that voice. Remember, too, that his/her law of attraction is working for him/her. When these two energies connect, you won't have to think. It will be the right person.

Don't try and rush the process. If you do you will short circuit the energies. The laws of the universe have an ebb and flow. You must let that work for you by trusting that you will find the right person. Any frustration, doubt or disbelief on your part will separate you from the energies.

Finally, remember that the universe will not do everything for you. You've got to do your part. Join a new group, go on a vacation, attending a workshop, taking up a sport like bowling, skiing, bicycling, whatever interests you. You can write the most perfect list in the world but you won't find anyone to match it if you sit at home watching TV or doing the same things you have always done and not mixing with new people.



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