One of my colleagues, always found stuck to computer screen, was in upset mood yesterday. Although she is less open to our other colleagues, I am fortunate enough to be in the list of her best friends. She disclosed the reason of being so upset and told that her online friend has duped her. I don't want you to face such situation in your life? So I am here to discuss some important things to do in long distance relationship. Here are some:
Use Google/Skype Video Chat
This is the first important thing to do in long distance relationship or before any long distance relationship begins. You should use Google, Skype or any other online video-chatting service in the initial phase of dating. You may be well aware of the fact that no relationship ever takes place without exchange of words/emotions. Eyes and lips work as the door to heart of each other in any relationship.
In long distance relationship, the webcam used in video chatting will substitute our eyes and lips. You will also be able to see your partner on the other side and may be able to decide whether he is capable of being "Mr. Right" for you or not.
Know the marital status of your online partner
Before starting online dating or online relationship, confirm the marital status of the guy on another side. Most of the guys' aspirants of online relationship lie about their marital status. They are less interested in serious relationship with you and use online long distance relationship as a mean of their part time joy. You should take help of some marriage bureau or private vigilance agents for confirming the credentials of online dating partner.
Do not disclose personal information too early
Until you are too confident about your choice as "Mr. Right", do not disclose personal information like personal email address, telephone number, bank account number and home address. This may create problem for you at any stage. A wicked guy may use this information to threaten or even to break you mentally as well as financially.
Know Identity of your partner
Some surveys have proven that about 90% of women involved in the online dating are emailing the same 10% men found always online. This means that the competition is tough for the women. A woman prefers online dating and relationship in the state of desperation to find her "Mr. Right". Do you think that online dating may be a better option in such a competitive scenario? Let us hope that you do not see the same guy on the computer screen of your friend someday trying to woo her also.
Prepare Yourself
Online dating may be a good option for you to find "Prince Charming" but only when you are well prepared. Do you have enough knowledge about the online dating and long distance relationships for facing such fierce competition?
I will suggest you to prepare well for long distance relationship before diving into online dating in order to save yourself from further desperation and wastage of time.
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