Why Did She Leave Me? - The Real Reason Revealed!

Having a relationship end is difficult for anyone. It's even worse when your ex leaves you without even giving a reason! I remember my ex left me and the only question on my mind for weeks and months was "Why did she leave me?" I spent a lot of time agonizing over it and occasionally tried to play it off as 'she changed'. The truth is that there is only one reason when a woman would ever leave you!

Before I tell you what it is I just want to say that I'm not trying to kick you when you are down. I was in your position before, I had a girl dump me but I got over it and you will too! The reason she left you is simply that she was no longer attracted to you.

Attraction is what causes people to get together and stay together. From this point I imagine you have 2 possible questions in your mind. "Why did she lose attraction?" and/or "How can I re-create attraction?".

There are many reasons why a woman loses attraction for a man. I will cover the main ones which should help you. First of all you were able to create attraction in your ex, so you can do it again. If you didn't you would never of had a relationship in the first place.

How has your behaviour changed now since the beginning of the relationship? Did you become content, insecure, jealous or boring? Sometimes in relationships we tend to lose spontaneity because we have become so comfortable and content. Women need variety. I imagine at the start of the relationship you were more creative and fun! Perhaps you switched out fun nights out with staying in and watching TV.

Maybe she started to feel insignificant. Did you prioritise your friends, work or family over her? Often times in a relationship we can take our partner for granted and forget that we need to prioritise them and make them feel important.

Behaving needy or insecure is the biggest killer in relationships. It usually happens when we fear that we might lose the one we love. It can cause people to act crazy and controlling and in their efforts to hold on to their loved one they end up pushing them further away. Symptoms of this are constantly checking in on them, monitoring their facebook wall activity and demanding to know who they spend their time with. If you feel like you fit into this category it's important you know that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you start acting in this needy insecure way as if she will leave you then she will.

Summary

She left because she no longer felt attracted to you. I think deep down most guys have an idea of why she left but their ego blinds them to that reason. So, let go of your ego and work this out to ensure it never happens again! Some reasons why she may of lost attraction are you started behaving insecure, needy, boring, you stopped appreciating her...

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